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  • Is Size Important for a Great Female Orgasm?

    Posted on July 25th, 2009 admin No comments

    Hi honey! I have a question…

    Do you know what women think when a penis is below average???

    Well, let me resolve this intriguing dilemma! :)

    In my last article I briefly mentioned the average penis size to be about 5 1/2 and 6 inches. This number was based on research conducted by the Kinsey Institute in Indiana. So what happens when men fall below the average quota? Do women laugh and tell all their friends about it or do they secretly hope you can make up for it?

    Below I’ll answer all your questions plus give you secret tips on how to make her think you are absolutely amazing in bed, regardless of size!

    What goes through her mind when she sees your penis?

    I’m going to be honest here, when women first discover their partner’s penis is below average they are disappointed. But that’s not the final conclusion. A woman will never decide to stop sex before it begins simply by the site of your penis. After the initial disappointment, she will give you an opportunity to make up for your small size.

    At this point she’s thinking, “We’ll maybe he’s on the small size but let’s see what he can do.” She hopes that although her partner is small, he knows how to use his size as an advantage. In fact, most women know that men with small penises usually master several techniques to satisfy women.

    Haven’t you heard about the stereo type of men with smaller penises? Read on.

    Why men with small penises are better lovers

    Most men aren’t aware of this, but men with smaller penis size must work twice as hard to remove a woman’s initial disappointment. This factor makes them a far better lover then men with average or bigger penis size. The reason I say this is because men with larger penises usually rely only on their member to satisfy women. They rarely explore other regions such as oral sex and foreplay which is an even bigger disappointed to women.

    On the other hand, men with smaller penises usually master several techniques to please women. They are known to give great oral sex, penetrate in ways bigger size men can not, and be extremely passionate.

    A woman would rather have a partner with a smaller penis size who knows how to please her in multiple ways then a man with a big penis who does not. This is why it is said that men with small penises are better lovers.

    Tips to be a great lover, regardless of size!

    Many men assume that sexual satisfaction for women depends on penis size. They’re wrong. Women need various stimulants to be satisfied sexually. They must be satisfied mentally as well as physically. In fact, some studies have found that as many as 46% of women suffer from sexual unsatisfaction. This stems from a boring sex life and inability to orgasm.

    The reason so many women don’t experience an orgasm is because they, and their partners, aren’t exploring other areas of sexual satisfaction.

    The truth is penis size has little to do with sexual satisfaction since not all women orgasm from intercourse. Many women need stimulation from oral sex, sexual massage, or sex toys to orgasm.

    Below are hot ways to make your women experience the greatest sex of her life, regardless of size; she will be coming back for more!

    Master foreplay

    An essential to giving women an amazing sexual experience is foreplay. While most men have foreplay techniques not all have what it takes to stand apart from the rest. This means taking foreplay to another level. Are you ready to get creative?

    Body Massage Candle

    Candles are necessary to setting the mood. It’s a definite must to start the night off in the right foot. You can bring this element a step further by lighting body massage candles instead of regular ones. Body massage candles are meant to be more than decoration; they are made to melt into sensual massage oil. Simply light the candle and drizzle the warm oil on your lover’s body; she will be highly aroused as the warm oil touches her skin. Since the wax turns into oil, it’s the perfect opportunity for an erotic body massage.

    Most women have never heard of the body massage candle, when you introduce this nice surprise, she’ll be wondering what else you have in store!

    Sensitizing Cream

    After you set the mood for sex; it’s time to enhance her sexual experience; opt for sensitizing cream. Sensitizing cream is a lubricant wich promotes genital blood flow. There are sensitizing creams available for both men and women. The ones designed for women promote clitoral blood flow which is essential for orgasms. Clitoral blood flow helps increase a woman’s sex drive, sensitivity, and climax.

    Once the sensitizing cream is applied to her vaginal lips and clitoris, your every touch will be arousing. The increased clitoral blood flow makes it possible for women who have difficulty achieving an orgasm during sex experience orgasms easier and stronger.

    Sensitizing creams for men work wonders as well. Since they also promote genital blood flow; they work to increase the size and hardness of erections. Your erection will be the biggest and hardest you’ve ever had. They also increase stamina, so that you stop when you want to. What more can you ask for?

    Sex Furtniture

    It’s time to take sex off of the bed onto a more exciting location with sex furniture. Flat surfaces, such as the bed are boring compared to the angles in sex furniture. Sex furniture is designed in multiple shapes to offer different angles for maximum penetration, it is the sure fire way to boost your sexual experience.

    Couples can find perfect angles with the various sex furniture products out there; my favorite are from Loving Angles. Their sex furniture is so discreet it can be added to your home decor without anyone knowing. This allows couples to take advantage of sexual moments when they arise.

    Another popular model is known as the Liberator. Several of my friends have told me that it’s worth every penny of its price.

    Remember, when buying sex furniture choose one that can be decorated into your own home since research shows products which are hidden rarely get used.

    After all great sex is all about getting into the right position. A small change in angle can be the difference between “ok” sex and outrageous sex!

    Kama Sutra

    Speaking of angles, the Kama Sutra is an amazing book which offers great ideas for sex positions. The Kama Sutra is often overlooked and most men don’t take the time to learn about new sex positions. This is a shame because men are not mastering a valuable tool in sex; that is finding the perfect angle.

    Different sex positions offer men unique angles for ultimate penetration. This works to benefit both men and women as certain positions offer g-spot stimulation; a spot often missed with standard sex positions. G-spot orgasms are very intense for women and often lead to female ejaculation. This can be very exciting for both men and women.

    Men with smaller penis should refer to the Kama Sutra to get maximum penetration. With the right position a smaller penis size allows men to penetrate and hit spots deeper in the vagina that will normally hurt a woman. This means, men with smaller penis size are able to please women in ways that men with larger penises can not. Isn’t that a boost to the ego!

    Finally, men who are below average in penis size should not assume that they aren’t able to satisfy women. Don’t get hung up on the question of quarter-inches! Be confident and adventurous. With the right attitude such as being creative in foreplay and in sex, women will see your size (regardless of what it is) as an advantage.

    Show women that indeed you master several skills in pleasing her. Learn about new sex positions, sex creams, and sex furniture to show women you put your time and effort to giving her the best sex ever. With all these factors in use, she’ll think you’re the ultimate lover and will brag to her friends on the great things you can do!

    IMPORTANT: For more information about the sensitizing cream I normally recommend to my clients, click here!!!

    With Love,

    ~ Gabrielle Moore

    Gabrielle Moore is author of the now-famous book The Female Orgasm Revealed. She also owns the website http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com lp(at)www.ArticlePostRobot.com

  • Smaller Size for a Great Female Orgasm

    Posted on July 25th, 2009 admin No comments

    Hi honey! I have a question…

    Do you know what women think when a penis is below average???

    Well, let me resolve this intriguing dilemma! :)

    In my last article I briefly mentioned the average penis size to be about 5 1/2 and 6 inches. This number was based on research conducted by the Kinsey Institute in Indiana. So what happens when men fall below the average quota? Do women laugh and tell all their friends about it or do they secretly hope you can make up for it?

    Below I’ll answer all your questions plus give you secret tips on how to make her think you are absolutely amazing in bed, regardless of size!

    What goes through her mind when she sees your penis?

    I’m going to be honest here, when women first discover their partner’s penis is below average they are disappointed. But that’s not the final conclusion. A woman will never decide to stop sex before it begins simply by the site of your penis. After the initial disappointment, she will give you an opportunity to make up for your small size.

    At this point she’s thinking, “We’ll maybe he’s on the small size but let’s see what he can do.” She hopes that although her partner is small, he knows how to use his size as an advantage. In fact, most women know that men with small penises usually master several techniques to satisfy women.

    Haven’t you heard about the stereo type of men with smaller penises? Read on.

    Why men with small penises are better lovers

    Most men aren’t aware of this, but men with smaller penis size must work twice as hard to remove a woman’s initial disappointment. This factor makes them a far better lover then men with average or bigger penis size. The reason I say this is because men with larger penises usually rely only on their member to satisfy women. They rarely explore other regions such as oral sex and foreplay which is an even bigger disappointed to women.

    On the other hand, men with smaller penises usually master several techniques to please women. They are known to give great oral sex, penetrate in ways bigger size men can not, and be extremely passionate.

    A woman would rather have a partner with a smaller penis size who knows how to please her in multiple ways then a man with a big penis who does not. This is why it is said that men with small penises are better lovers.

    Tips to be a great lover, regardless of size!

    Many men assume that sexual satisfaction for women depends on penis size. They’re wrong. Women need various stimulants to be satisfied sexually. They must be satisfied mentally as well as physically. In fact, some studies have found that as many as 46% of women suffer from sexual unsatisfaction. This stems from a boring sex life and inability to orgasm.

    The reason so many women don’t experience an orgasm is because they, and their partners, aren’t exploring other areas of sexual satisfaction.

    The truth is penis size has little to do with sexual satisfaction since not all women orgasm from intercourse. Many women need stimulation from oral sex, sexual massage, or sex toys to orgasm.

    Below are hot ways to make your women experience the greatest sex of her life, regardless of size; she will be coming back for more!

    Master foreplay

    An essential to giving women an amazing sexual experience is foreplay. While most men have foreplay techniques not all have what it takes to stand apart from the rest. This means taking foreplay to another level. Are you ready to get creative?

    Body Massage Candle

    Candles are necessary to setting the mood. It’s a definite must to start the night off in the right foot. You can bring this element a step further by lighting body massage candles instead of regular ones. Body massage candles are meant to be more than decoration; they are made to melt into sensual massage oil. Simply light the candle and drizzle the warm oil on your lover’s body; she will be highly aroused as the warm oil touches her skin. Since the wax turns into oil, it’s the perfect opportunity for an erotic body massage.

    Most women have never heard of the body massage candle, when you introduce this nice surprise, she’ll be wondering what else you have in store!

    Sensitizing Cream

    After you set the mood for sex; it’s time to enhance her sexual experience; opt for sensitizing cream. Sensitizing cream is a lubricant wich promotes genital blood flow. There are sensitizing creams available for both men and women. The ones designed for women promote clitoral blood flow which is essential for orgasms. Clitoral blood flow helps increase a woman’s sex drive, sensitivity, and climax.

    Once the sensitizing cream is applied to her vaginal lips and clitoris, your every touch will be arousing. The increased clitoral blood flow makes it possible for women who have difficulty achieving an orgasm during sex experience orgasms easier and stronger.

    Sensitizing creams for men work wonders as well. Since they also promote genital blood flow; they work to increase the size and hardness of erections. Your erection will be the biggest and hardest you’ve ever had. They also increase stamina, so that you stop when you want to. What more can you ask for?

    Sex Furtniture

    It’s time to take sex off of the bed onto a more exciting location with sex furniture. Flat surfaces, such as the bed are boring compared to the angles in sex furniture. Sex furniture is designed in multiple shapes to offer different angles for maximum penetration, it is the sure fire way to boost your sexual experience.

    Couples can find perfect angles with the various sex furniture products out there; my favorite are from Loving Angles. Their sex furniture is so discreet it can be added to your home decor without anyone knowing. This allows couples to take advantage of sexual moments when they arise.

    Another popular model is known as the Liberator. Several of my friends have told me that it’s worth every penny of its price.

    Remember, when buying sex furniture choose one that can be decorated into your own home since research shows products which are hidden rarely get used.

    After all great sex is all about getting into the right position. A small change in angle can be the difference between “ok” sex and outrageous sex!

    Kama Sutra

    Speaking of angles, the Kama Sutra is an amazing book which offers great ideas for sex positions. The Kama Sutra is often overlooked and most men don’t take the time to learn about new sex positions. This is a shame because men are not mastering a valuable tool in sex; that is finding the perfect angle.

    Different sex positions offer men unique angles for ultimate penetration. This works to benefit both men and women as certain positions offer g-spot stimulation; a spot often missed with standard sex positions. G-spot orgasms are very intense for women and often lead to female ejaculation. This can be very exciting for both men and women.

    Men with smaller penis should refer to the Kama Sutra to get maximum penetration. With the right position a smaller penis size allows men to penetrate and hit spots deeper in the vagina that will normally hurt a woman. This means, men with smaller penis size are able to please women in ways that men with larger penises can not. Isn’t that a boost to the ego!

    Finally, men who are below average in penis size should not assume that they aren’t able to satisfy women. Don’t get hung up on the question of quarter-inches! Be confident and adventurous. With the right attitude such as being creative in foreplay and in sex, women will see your size (regardless of what it is) as an advantage.

    Show women that indeed you master several skills in pleasing her. Learn about new sex positions, sex creams, and sex furniture to show women you put your time and effort to giving her the best sex ever. With all these factors in use, she’ll think you’re the ultimate lover and will brag to her friends on the great things you can do!

    IMPORTANT: For more information about the sensitizing cream I normally recommend to my clients, click here!!!

    With Love,

    ~ Gabrielle Moore

    Gabrielle Moore is author of the now-famous book The Female Orgasm Revealed. She also owns the website http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com lp(at)www.ArticlePostRobot.com

  • How to Get Your Partner Watch Adult Videos with You

    Posted on July 14th, 2009 admin No comments

    Many men would love it if their female partner was interested in watching adult videos with them, but they are afraid to ask, because they are scared of how she might respond. The truth is that many women enjoy adult videos just as much as men, or at least open to the idea of trying them out- if they have not already. The problem that most men have is that they make their partners feel like watching them is about watching other women. If make the point clear that it is not about cheating-with-a-video, then your partner will be much more receptive to the idea.

    The first step is letting her know that you are interested in watching a video with her, and that you are not interested in watching the videos for the purpose of seeing other women. Make it clear that you are interested in getting new ideas of positions to use with her. One of the best ways to introduce this idea is by purchasing an erotica book or video, on the softer side, e.g. Kama Sutra to watch together. If this goes over well, and you have a mutual inclination towards taking it to the next level, then move on to the next step.

    The second step is to watch a safe, premium cable TV video, like you see late at night on Cinemax or HBO. These are very couple-oriented, and are not graphic at all. Most people would not find these late-night shows offensive, so they are pretty safe if the erotica video/book went over well. They can be stumbled-upon when channel surfing, so you can very easily bring them into discussion by ‘accidentally’ turning them on when you watch television together. If she likes it, and you have successfully made the transition to these video, and your experiences together are intensifying as a result, then it is time to go all the way.

    The third and final step is to pick out an adult video at a store, or online. Find videos that are geared towards couples, i.e. not degrading to women. Videos are becoming more couple-oriented, now that video makers are discovering how many women enjoy them as well, but there are still a lot of terribly offensive ones out there, so be careful. Also, you will have a terrible experience watching a video with her if she offended, and she will probably not be interested in watching videos with you again in the future. To play it safe, you should probably let her pick the video the first time, and you should go along with whatever she picks. Wait until the second time you watch a video together to voice your opinion.

    If you have successfully made the transition to watching videos together, congratulations! A few things to keep in mind are; never suggest any degrading videos (they are not enjoyable anyways), focus on her, do not try to watch them all the time, do not just watch the videos with her- get interactive by trying out some of the things in the videos while you watch them.

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    Matthew Stevenson is a freelance writer, specializing in sexuality and relationships.