As a relationship turns from new and exciting and started being classed as a long-term thing many couples find it harder and harder to recapture the spark of exciting, steamy sex that was so unforgettable when you first got to together.

So if you are in a long-term relationship and your sex has perhaps lost some of its excitement is “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by acclaimed author Michael Webb a good resource to bring back the fire to your bedroom? Here is what we think.

This e-book starts with an overview of lovemaking that can give you an understanding of topics including bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance and some interesting facts about the Kama Sutra. There are also guides on lubrication and a brief illustrated lovemaking position guide at the back which is handy; the main meat of the book however is in the tips themselves.

The first thing you notice is that it is clear and easy to read. Every page has about 8 to 10 tips that can really inspire your sexual side without having to read through dozens of long winded paragraphs of information beside the point. When you are in the spur of the moment this book delivers the goods by simply opening on any page.

But what about the actual tips I hear you ask? Well that is bit that makes this worthwhile.

With exactly 539 lovemaking tips all up ranging from oral sex techniques and tips for both men and for women to fun foreplay games and arousal techniques to ways to make intercourse feel unique and much more sensual. There were some that seemed a bit silly or quite obvious to me but most of them were appealing to me and my wife who enjoyed the parts about where to make love that surprised me!

A word of warning though, do not sit there and try to read through this book in one go! There is too much and it is too overwhelming, this is a book to skim first and pinpoint bits and pieces as you go rather than a cover to cover guide as the tips tend to be all mixed together.

Another bonus that my wife especially appreciated was that there was nothing degrading or perverted in this guide that some other guides seem to thrive on like it was some amateur porn training guide. All the tips were unapologetically about sex of course but did not cross the line into anything over the top or overly raunchy.

So in the end, is this what you are looking for?

If your sex life is not completely destroyed but is simply in a lull this is the best guide you can get for sheer size and amount of information. This is best for people who perhaps know they need something new to rekindle the spark but do not know where to start or even for people who might fear their sex life may start heading that way and want to make sure it does not become boring at all even if not all the tips are amazing most will get you there. This however is not a guide for people who actually have sexual problems or intimacy problems which are much more drastic.

Variety is the spice of life they say and with over 500 tips this certainly has that!

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If you take a look online or at the Kama Sutra you would be forgiven for thinking that there are so many amazing sex positions that you would be hard pressed to find a best sex position. If you are looking to bring your partner to orgasm however, many of those positions may be enjoyable but not optimum for the task.

There are a couple of good sex positions that could be considered the best but only for each gender as men and women are quite different. As an aside did you know that by varying the position by just an inch can change the intensity and feeling too? This means that you should take your time and experiment with angles a bit with these positions to find what is best for you and your partner.

The Best Sex Position For Women To Climax

For women the ‘reverse missionary’ can be the best and easiest way to an orgasm. It is like the traditional missionary position except the woman is on the top rather than the man. When the woman is on top she can control the friction on her g-spot or her clitoris and has control of speed and power as well.

Usually it is best for the women to orgasm first so once the woman is ready and aroused enough this position will allow her to climax and then you can shift to a position where the man can have control. Where you place your legs in this position can change things a great deal depending on many physical factors, try changing your legs by spreading them or bringing them together or alternating this to find what feels best.

The Best Position For Men To Orgasm

While the missionary position is also good for guys the ‘doggy style’ position is often considered better because like the missionary position it gives you good control but it has a few other benefits. Intercourse from behind while having no face to face contact (easily fixed with a mirror though) is a great position for hitting her g-spot. It also allows you full access to her sensual areas, the neck, back, bottom and reaching around you can also fondle the breasts and clitoris.

The other key aspect is deep penetration which feels great for the man and for the women, though if you are very well endowed you may need to be careful not to hit her cervix while doing this which can be very painful.

The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions

While each position mentioned has benefits and negatives and so will every other position one problem remains that couples often fall into when trying to spice of their sex life; what happens when you try every hundred different type of position you can find in sex books and online?

In the end they are all quite similar and you will incorporate the best ones for both of you into your love making and they will become standard … and often boring as it always feels the same. This is why couples need to not only explore physical positions when making love but also cultivate a spirit of adventure and inventiveness into their sex lives. This is nothing dirty of sleazy it just means a few changes in the way you approach things. For instance:

• Make love in a new and different place
• Make love in an old place you used too but have not done fro a while
• Add some food into your bedroom capers
• Break the routine with something exciting and different!

If you want to know more on how to spice up your sex life click here for guides, links and information that add passion back to the bedroom in any relationship!

Nearly every guy believes he is a master at oral sex…that’s OK. I do too. The difference is, I have dozens (not hundreds, I mean there are diseases out there, fellas!) of testimonials from women whose future sex lives I have personally ruined. I was the best they ever had or will ever have (unless their new guy is reading this!) Let me begin with the foundation for mind-blowing oral sex.

You have to enjoy it.  

You see, if you are merely doing a “task” to get her off, you will be an average lover. Simply applying the techniques below is not enough to make her your sex slave for life. Believe me, if you do put your heart, soul (and yes, your tongue) into this, you have a chance of giving her multiple orgasms and become the Chinese lick master of the world.   If you are one of those people who think that it is just disgusting and try to refrain from it, take a step back and relax. If your woman smells funny, try it again immediately after a shower. Keep in mind, if a woman climaxes well via oral sex, she may be unable to have an orgasm during routine sex.  

Some women cannot climax without receiving oral sex. If that is a challenge for you, get over it. If your lady loves oral sex, give it to her and if she does not, then discover the reason behind it.

1.      She might have had a bad experience.

2.      She might feel uncomfortable about her body.

3.      If she doesn’t want it, then don’t force it on her.

4.      Some men think that giving oral sex is disgusting, but love to receive it. That’s not fair you idiot, if you like your partner to perform oral sex, then you need to do the same for her, ENTHUSIASTICALLY.  

Secrets of Mind Blowing Oral Sex
- Begin teasing her before going down on her. Run your fingers on her thighs and kiss her on her belly button and belly and then from there just dig into her vagina. Brush your tongue against the labia, and create more lubrication before the show begins.

- Enjoy and have fun and let her know that you are having a great time, as women love it when they feel that their men are just loving their bodies. I always moan a bit and when I am coming up for air, I give her compliments about her pussy.

- Don’t rush yourself. Try to spend plenty of time in pussy-ville. Enjoy everything and explore her vagina like an adventurer. Hurrying to achieve a climax is a sure way to avoid one. Many women who are rushed or too anxious to climax don’t do so.

- Tickle her clitoris with your tongue. Start licking it slowly and then start doing it in a fast rhythm. Because some women love to get their clitoris stimulated and even achieve orgasm while their clitoris is being stimulated. Stop treating it like a fence to be painted. Think about Chinese characters and calligraphy. Paint the alphabet slowly and creatively.

- Massage her outer lips. While you are sucking and licking her clitoris, massage her lips. Pull them away and bring them close together. This will drive her totally insane.

- Use your fingers. Use your fingers to penetrate her while you are licking her clitoris. She will love this. Chances are before long you will feel her tremble with pure delight. Also, you can rub her clitoris while you eat her. You can also try using a toy while you are eating. The three of you will all benefit.

- Put a pillow under her ass. This will give you more room for your dinning pleasure. You will be able to focus more on how to please her if you have more access to her. This Kama Sutra position will also allow deeper penetration of your fingers or toy.

- Massage her nipples. Most women love it when they nipples are rubbed during sex acts. I had one girlfriend who insisted on biting her nipples (impossible during cunnilingus, but you get the idea). Keep in mind that variety is the key. – Stop midway through intercourse to eat her. This will catch her by surprise. Get her all worked up by pounding the hell out of her. Just when she least expects it, jump down and start licking her beaver. She will go crazy when you do this.

- Eat her with mints in your mouth. This will set her wild. Put a menthol cough drop in your mouth and go down there. After you are done, share it and have her go down on you while she sucks on the cough drop.

- Two Step. Put your mouth on her clitoris and suck while your tongue is in motion. This two-step move of sucking and licking should be reserved for the pre-orgasm. It works nearly all the time.

- Hum a little tune. While you are sucking, hum a little. Some women really like this. Vary the intensity, volume, and rhythm of your humming.

- Encourage a Brazilian wax. Nothing beats eating a fur-burger EXCEPT a fully waxed and clean pussy. Not only will you appreciate avoiding nature’s dental floss. But most women report better and more satisfying sex when their pussy’s are waxed or at least shaved.  

Do Not…

- Smell. Don’t tell her that she stinks or ask if she showered today. Take a shower together and start the action while you are in the shower.

- Don’t insist on performing oral sex. If she isn’t feeling so fresh, she is dropping you a hint. If you insist too much, you might get a face full of blood if she is on her period.

- No bartering. Don’t tell her that since you went down on her, she should go down on you. – Don’t tell her what your ex liked. She isn’t your ex, so don’t compare her to her.   Keep in mind that the foundation for good oral sex is enthusiasm, communication and patience. I have other articles on multiple orgasm techniques, creating better sex no matter how long you’ve been together or married, and how to make your wife hot.