Friday nights:

Friday night 5.00PM, the day’s work at the store was a particularly long and drawn out, and the only thing that you could think of all day in the shop was how and what method you would use for the evening’s extracurricular activities. First this…, then that… BIG MISTAKE! The anticipation of having sex seems even more enjoyable than doing the deed itself. This is what often happens, playing out the scenario in your head over and over again and when you finally do meet up you are just bursting for it; a speed-dial boink of ultrasonic proportions. An amazing 30 seconds-good night! Take gourmet over gourmand for example, you are starved-the saliva glands work overtime-you wolf it down-appetite fed-game over. Satisfying? I think not. My method is a simple store of gourmet cooking, slow things down and prepare. Try and concentrate on something else during the day-it’s hard J I know but well worth it. Preparation for sex is most important, have a good shower or a bath and then put on your sex outfit, if you don’t have an outfit buy one; check out the online range with various sex toy stores and shops. My personal favourite for women is a skin tight black fishnet suit (Linda) bare buttocks with a black g-string (T-back) or perhaps a peek A boo suit which can be equally stunning. Shop around. What’s in store for men is something simple, a penis strap along with briefs with a zipper or for the even more adventurous the very luring leather corset cuffs. As for other sex toys and accessories available at online shops and stores, the all important sensual oils such as clitoral stimulating gel and bull power delay gel for men, (especially useful for the first shag of the evening) and not forgetting a vibrator or dildo to help with that extra stimulation for the ladies. OK, I’m sorry if I have offended some of you; I’m just trying to point out to you that sex toys and sex shops and stores are all so common nowadays and use of which are well accepted in society today. So let’s not be shy here, with the same partner (appx. 200 times)-sex can and will become stagnant after a time and according to scientists it is one of the biggest reasons why some marriages/relationships are liable to fail, besides it’s all in the name of pleasure isn’t it? I digress, so how you use your toys is of course, entirely up to you. Men enjoy being teased a while, for example oral sex outside of the briefs/boxers to start. Women would prefer you work from the top, (a long kiss for example), then working your way down. Use of the vibrator should be necessary only after (or before) you have exhausted tongue and finger stimulation. It might be wise to apply the gels just before full coitus, but some don’t mind the taste. If you are in need of a heads-up here, try using your browsing powers and check out the sex toy shops, stores or websites, like the online shop at dreamworld69. You will not believe the range of gear they have.

P.S., my humble advice is a mere tip of the iceberg when it comes to kama sutra, and besides everybody works differently don’t they?