Sex positions have been uppermost in the minds of people ever since the sexual revolution began in the 60s and began a roller-coaster ride into the future of  unbridled sexual free-for-all.  The different forms of sexual intercourse were once the purview of dilettantes and free-living souls. Today it has become the subject of every man and woman who is concerned about having a fruitfully satisfying sexual life.

Different types of sexual intercourse are used to either make sex interesting or to help a man or woman achieve sexual fulfillment if they have been afflicted by a sexual problem.

How many postures are there? There are not more than four or five basic positions and all the rest are merely variations of these four or five positions. The most basic is the Missionary position so called because some African tribal’s in the 17th century saw the western missionary making love to his wife and thus was the name was born! The other more popular ones are rear entry vaginal penetration, woman on top, the side by side spoons and the one where the woman lies on her back with her legs placed on her partner’s shoulders. There are also the standing, kneeling or sitting sex positions.  In the standing sex position the woman has her back to a solid support slightly raised so that the man can easily penetrate her.  In the sitting posture the man sits with leg outstretched and the woman sits atop him with her legs wrapped around him. In a variation the man sits in a chair and the woman straddles him with her feet on the floor.

There are other unusual forms like the ‘Seventh Posture’. This is described fully in Burton’s translation of ‘The Perfumed Garden’. Briefly the woman lies on her side and the man straddles her lower leg and lifts her upper leg on to his shoulder or holds it under his arm.

Sex positions are found in any of the classical erotic manuals of the East like the Kama Sutra (Sanskrit), The Perfumed Garden (Arabic), Sunu miaoshan or The Admirable Discourses of the Plain Girl (Chinese) and Ishimpo or the Essence of Medical Prescriptions (Japanese).  These books are much more than sex manuals they are pieces of classical literature enlightening and entertaining.

Most people think the Kama Sutra is just an ancient Indian sex which is partly true and we have covered these areas in other articles.

Here however we will look at what the book is famed for the best Kama Sutra sex positions.

Written thousands of years ago, the advice is still strangely appropriate in many ways to today’s society and the sex positions below have never gone out of date..

There are many sexual positions described in the chapter covering the sexual union between couples, but there are three positions which were emphasized and noted as being better than all the others.

These are known as the three secret positions.

Secret Position 1 The Conch Shell and Crab

The woman is lying down on her back. The man raises her legs with her knees at 90 degrees to her upper body, and with her knees parted; the man will hook her feet over his thighs.

The man is on his knees, with his legs spread far apart (for stability) and he enters the woman in this way, his truck in perpendicular to the floor.

The man’s hands will rest on the woman’s breasts, fondling them, while he rocks her (no thrusting), causing an intense stimulation of her clitoris.

The position will drive the woman wild with pleasure, and fill her with love. The man finds this position intensely satisfying and soon arrives to an explosive orgasm and ejaculation.

Secret Position 2 Man Vanquished

The man will sit using his arms to hold his body up, with his legs spread apart. He is totally passive, and the entire active roll is for the woman.

She mounts him sitting thus, putting her legs over his, and supporting herself by resting her hands on his shoulders.

The woman has three basic movements, the Samdamsha or the ‘Tongs’, the Bhramara or the Bee, and Prenkholita or the Swing.

The tongs has the woman grasping the man’s penis in her vagina and not letting go. This requires a great deal of internal control from the woman.

The bee has the woman swiveling her hips and encircling the man’s penis in a round movement.

The swing has the woman swaying on the man’s body, as if she were on a see-saw.

Usually the woman will employ all three movements until her great moment comes for an orgasm of seismic capacity.

Secret Position 3 Inverted Love

The man lies on his back, and the woman, mounts him, but with her head pointed towards his feet.

She is in a crawling position, on all fours, but penetrated by the man.

She rocks back and forth, and the man assists by powerful counter-thrusting as she eases back down on him.

This position stimulates a woman’s clitoris and g-spot with the woman guiding the movement to achieve maximum stimulation.

A simultaneous orgasm for the couple is assured, and one in which both finds love for the other.

The man also has a very stimulating view of the action and his own excitement is raised to new level of pleasure.

Here we have focused on the sex positions but there is much more to the Kama Sutra and any man should read this book

It is a guide for a man’s life, from his adolescence till old age, of which sex is only one element, so read more about the Kama Sutra and you can enhance your whole life not just your sex life.

If you take a look online or at the Kama Sutra you would be forgiven for thinking that there are so many amazing sex positions that you would be hard pressed to find a best sex position. If you are looking to bring your partner to orgasm however, many of those positions may be enjoyable but not optimum for the task.

There are a couple of good sex positions that could be considered the best but only for each gender as men and women are quite different. As an aside did you know that by varying the position by just an inch can change the intensity and feeling too? This means that you should take your time and experiment with angles a bit with these positions to find what is best for you and your partner.

The Best Sex Position For Women To Climax

For women the ‘reverse missionary’ can be the best and easiest way to an orgasm. It is like the traditional missionary position except the woman is on the top rather than the man. When the woman is on top she can control the friction on her g-spot or her clitoris and has control of speed and power as well.

Usually it is best for the women to orgasm first so once the woman is ready and aroused enough this position will allow her to climax and then you can shift to a position where the man can have control. Where you place your legs in this position can change things a great deal depending on many physical factors, try changing your legs by spreading them or bringing them together or alternating this to find what feels best.

The Best Position For Men To Orgasm

While the missionary position is also good for guys the ‘doggy style’ position is often considered better because like the missionary position it gives you good control but it has a few other benefits. Intercourse from behind while having no face to face contact (easily fixed with a mirror though) is a great position for hitting her g-spot. It also allows you full access to her sensual areas, the neck, back, bottom and reaching around you can also fondle the breasts and clitoris.

The other key aspect is deep penetration which feels great for the man and for the women, though if you are very well endowed you may need to be careful not to hit her cervix while doing this which can be very painful.

The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions

While each position mentioned has benefits and negatives and so will every other position one problem remains that couples often fall into when trying to spice of their sex life; what happens when you try every hundred different type of position you can find in sex books and online?

In the end they are all quite similar and you will incorporate the best ones for both of you into your love making and they will become standard … and often boring as it always feels the same. This is why couples need to not only explore physical positions when making love but also cultivate a spirit of adventure and inventiveness into their sex lives. This is nothing dirty of sleazy it just means a few changes in the way you approach things. For instance:

• Make love in a new and different place
• Make love in an old place you used too but have not done fro a while
• Add some food into your bedroom capers
• Break the routine with something exciting and different!

If you want to know more on how to spice up your sex life click here for guides, links and information that add passion back to the bedroom in any relationship!

There are many sexual positions that can be described, but few are known to enhance both the male and female orgasm.

There is one from the Kama Sutra and one from the Perfumed Garden that are sure to bring the lovers to a swift and profound orgasm and climax.

The Human Orgasm

Strangely enough, there are very few clear answers to what the human orgasm is. We know that certainly during orgasm our bodies and mental states are temporary altered.

Sigmund Freud made some clear separations in the female orgasm with a separation between clitoral and vaginal orgasms…stating that the former was not good, and the latter was much better .

This concept has been large abandoned in today’s world.

We do know our bodies (males in their ways and females in their ways) undergo changes such as heart rate, blood pressure, sensitivity of the skin, chemical changes (hormones in the bloodstream) and so on.

It appears that now in 2007 we still rely on the studies of Masters and Johnson (Sexual Response Cycle) to understand what is going on during our orgasm.

Advice form the Kama Sutra (on the best sexual position for enchanted orgasm)

Often called the Conch, this position will stimulate a woman’s clitoris, her g-spot and make her feel filled up.

When performed well, both partners reach an immense orgasm of unforgettable magnitude. The Kama Sutra explains it like this:

The woman will lay on her back,

the man positions (kneels) himself between her open legs, raising them,

The woman will hook her feet over his thighs, or even over his shoulders,

Then he will fondle her breasts, enjoying her well: this is known as Manmathpriya

More specifically, and in today’s language, the woman lies down on their back with her legs resting on the man’s shoulders.

The man then enters her from a kneeling position.

The man’s penis is inserted to it’s full depth inside her vagina and; and with some proper thrusting, the woman receives and immense pleasure from this feeling. She feels very full, and the man too, finds himself lost in pleasure.

For even extra depth, a small pillow can be pleased under the woman’s buttocks, and even the man with a small than average penis can achieve a great satisfaction for the woman in this position.

Advice from the Perfumed Garden

From all of the positions mentioned, this is the one that brings the greatest orgasm, as it (as in the Conch from the Kama Sutra) causes great clitoral and g-spot stimulation. In the words of the great Sheikh Nefzaoui,

THIRTEENTH MANNER – Dok el arz (pounding on the spot).

The man sits down with his legs stretched out; the woman then places herself astride on his thighs, crossing her legs behind the back of the man, and places her vulva opposite his member, which latter she guides into her vagina; she then places her arms round his neck, and he embraces her sides and waist, and helps her to rise and descend upon his verge. She must assist in his work.

Most people think the Kama Sutra is just an ancient Indian sex which is partly true and we have covered these areas in other articles.

Here however we will look at what the book is famed for the best Kama Sutra sex positions.

Written thousands of years ago, the advice is still strangely appropriate in many ways to today’s society and the sex positions below have never gone out of date..

There are many sexual positions described in the chapter covering the sexual union between couples, but there are three positions which were emphasized and noted as being better than all the others.

These are known as the three secret positions.

Secret Position 1 The Conch Shell and Crab

The woman is lying down on her back. The man raises her legs with her knees at 90 degrees to her upper body, and with her knees parted; the man will hook her feet over his thighs.

The man is on his knees, with his legs spread far apart (for stability) and he enters the woman in this way, his truck in perpendicular to the floor.

The man’s hands will rest on the woman’s breasts, fondling them, while he rocks her (no thrusting), causing an intense stimulation of her clitoris.

The position will drive the woman wild with pleasure, and fill her with love. The man finds this position intensely satisfying and soon arrives to an explosive orgasm and ejaculation.

Secret Position 2 Man Vanquished

The man will sit using his arms to hold his body up, with his legs spread apart. He is totally passive, and the entire active roll is for the woman.

She mounts him sitting thus, putting her legs over his, and supporting herself by resting her hands on his shoulders.

The woman has three basic movements, the Samdamsha or the ‘Tongs’, the Bhramara or the Bee, and Prenkholita or the Swing.

The tongs has the woman grasping the man’s penis in her vagina and not letting go. This requires a great deal of internal control from the woman.

The bee has the woman swiveling her hips and encircling the man’s penis in a round movement.

The swing has the woman swaying on the man’s body, as if she were on a see-saw.

Usually the woman will employ all three movements until her great moment comes for an orgasm of seismic capacity.

Secret Position 3 Inverted Love

The man lies on his back, and the woman, mounts him, but with her head pointed towards his feet.

She is in a crawling position, on all fours, but penetrated by the man.

She rocks back and forth, and the man assists by powerful counter-thrusting as she eases back down on him.

This position stimulates a woman’s clitoris and g-spot with the woman guiding the movement to achieve maximum stimulation.

A simultaneous orgasm for the couple is assured, and one in which both finds love for the other.

The man also has a very stimulating view of the action and his own excitement is raised to new level of pleasure.

Here we have focused on the sex positions but there is much more to the Kama Sutra and any man should read this book

It is a guide for a man’s life, from his adolescence till old age, of which sex is only one element, so read more about the Kama Sutra and you can enhance your whole life not just your sex life.

Although written over 1,500 years ago, the message in the Kama Sutra is as current today as it was then. Unknown to many, the Kama Sutra is not a sex manual, but a life manual. We have selected 4 of the positions most likely to cause simultaneous orgasms between the lovers.

Follow the instructions carefully, and new and exquisite pleasures are bound to come to you. The names have been adapted to our modern lifestyles, but the positions described at all original Kama Sutra poses for mutual satisfaction.

Position #1 – Impaled!

This is a position where the woman does all the work, and is most relaxing for a man that has had vigorous sex before hand, and has regained his sexual appetite.

In this position, the man basically sits up on the bed, and does nothing. This is where the woman must be in charge.

While the man is sitting up, the woman will mount him astride his open legs, so the couple are facing each other, but the man’s mouth is at the woman’s breasts (which he must begin to nibble).

The woman will guide the man’s firm and erect penis into her vagina, and to the depth she feels most comfortable with. Meanwhile the woman starts her movements (a bump and grind is very appropriate), and the man can still fondle her breasts, or grab the woman from the buttocks, pressing the pushing to make the penetration deeper.

The woman should alternate her movements, from bump and grind to hard pressed (vulva to the base of the man’s penis) and swiveling her hips. In case the man wishes to orgasm first (or too soon), all the woman has to do is stop moving. Soon a mutual orgasm will arrive (as she restarts her movements).

Position #2 – Stopping Up the Doorway

Here is a face to face position, where also the hands of the lovers are free to caress each other while the man is penetrating deeply, stimulating not only the woman’s clitoris but also her g-spot.

With the woman lying on her back, the man (from on top) grabs the woman’s legs and makes them to rest on his shoulders. The woman will help guide his penis into her vagina, but also, without guidance, the penis can easily enter the vagina or anus should that be desirable. The man is prone but resting on his knees.

The woman is completely filled up by the man, and the two lovers are toughing and pressing hard at her vulva and his penis root. Although the man is thrusting, the woman can repel and counter-thrust each time. The woman might herself grab the man’s buttocks, and pull him even closer and if thrusting, make each thrust more forceful.

The couple soon arrives to mutual orgasm and as the man’s penis it set to the opening of the uterus; his sperm are ejaculated directly in the best place for conception.

Position #3 – The Stack

In this position, the man must do all the work, but what a pleasant work it is. With the woman lying down on the bed, in prone position (on her stomach) width legs spread apart.

The man will work to get the vagina wet, either by oral caress, manual stimulation, or with the use of a lubricant. When the vulva has opened, the man lies on top of the woman, and as he enters her vagina with his erect penis, the woman will slowly close her legs. The penis is trapped now in her vagina, and the man is free to caress the woman to whatever part of her body his hands can reach.

While the man is thrusting, the woman can begin contraction of her kegels to enhance the sexual experience for the man, and also for herself as this creates added friction during the man’s thrusting.

Position #4 – V for Victory!

The V position is unequalled for the dominant man seeking full surrender from the woman. While the woman lays down on her back, the man approaches and squats in front of the woman, and opens and holds her legs (from the ankles) wide apart to form a V. The woman is fully exposed, completely open, and the man then enters her vagina with a slight forceful movement.

Now the man can thrust and rummage the woman to his heart’s content, with full strokes or partial, but always in a rhythmical manner.

It is often useful for the man to withdraw completely, and re-enter in the same forceful manner as the first penetration. At this juncture, the man should press home till orgasm, depositing her sperm directly at the uterus entrance. The woman can easily swoon from such a pleasure as she may have never received before.

Try the above Kama Sutra positions and you will find them as effective and enjoyable as they were over 1,500 years ago.

Most people think the Kama Sutra is just an ancient Indian sex which is partly true and we have covered these areas in other articles.

Here however we will look at what the book is famed for the best Kama Sutra sex positions.

Written thousands of years ago, the advice is still strangely appropriate in many ways to today’s society and the sex positions below have never gone out of date..

There are many sexual positions described in the chapter covering the sexual union between couples, but there are three positions which were emphasized and noted as being better than all the others.

These are known as the three secret positions.

Secret Position 1 The Conch Shell and Crab

The woman is lying down on her back. The man raises her legs with her knees at 90 degrees to her upper body, and with her knees parted; the man will hook her feet over his thighs.

The man is on his knees, with his legs spread far apart (for stability) and he enters the woman in this way, his truck in perpendicular to the floor.

The man’s hands will rest on the woman’s breasts, fondling them, while he rocks her (no thrusting), causing an intense stimulation of her clitoris.

The position will drive the woman wild with pleasure, and fill her with love. The man finds this position intensely satisfying and soon arrives to an explosive orgasm and ejaculation.

Secret Position 2 Man Vanquished

The man will sit using his arms to hold his body up, with his legs spread apart. He is totally passive, and the entire active roll is for the woman.

She mounts him sitting thus, putting her legs over his, and supporting herself by resting her hands on his shoulders.

The woman has three basic movements, the Samdamsha or the ‘Tongs’, the Bhramara or the Bee, and Prenkholita or the Swing.

The tongs has the woman grasping the man’s penis in her vagina and not letting go. This requires a great deal of internal control from the woman.

The bee has the woman swiveling her hips and encircling the man’s penis in a round movement.

The swing has the woman swaying on the man’s body, as if she were on a see-saw.

Usually the woman will employ all three movements until her great moment comes for an orgasm of seismic capacity.

Secret Position 3 Inverted Love

The man lies on his back, and the woman, mounts him, but with her head pointed towards his feet.

She is in a crawling position, on all fours, but penetrated by the man.

She rocks back and forth, and the man assists by powerful counter-thrusting as she eases back down on him.

This position stimulates a woman’s clitoris and g-spot with the woman guiding the movement to achieve maximum stimulation.

A simultaneous orgasm for the couple is assured, and one in which both finds love for the other.

The man also has a very stimulating view of the action and his own excitement is raised to new level of pleasure.

Here we have focused on the sex positions but there is much more to the Kama Sutra and any man should read this book

It is a guide for a man’s life, from his adolescence till old age, of which sex is only one element, so read more about the Kama Sutra and you can enhance your whole life not just your sex life.

Although written over 1,500 years ago, the message in the Kama Sutra is as current today as it was then. Unknown to many, the Kama Sutra is not a sex manual, but a life manual. We have selected 4 of the positions most likely to cause simultaneous orgasms between the lovers.

Follow the instructions carefully, and new and exquisite pleasures are bound to come to you. The names have been adapted to our modern lifestyles, but the positions described at all original Kama Sutra poses for mutual satisfaction.

Position #1 – Impaled!

This is a position where the woman does all the work, and is most relaxing for a man that has had vigorous sex before hand, and has regained his sexual appetite.

In this position, the man basically sits up on the bed, and does nothing. This is where the woman must be in charge.

While the man is sitting up, the woman will mount him astride his open legs, so the couple are facing each other, but the man’s mouth is at the woman’s breasts (which he must begin to nibble).

The woman will guide the man’s firm and erect penis into her vagina, and to the depth she feels most comfortable with. Meanwhile the woman starts her movements (a bump and grind is very appropriate), and the man can still fondle her breasts, or grab the woman from the buttocks, pressing the pushing to make the penetration deeper.

The woman should alternate her movements, from bump and grind to hard pressed (vulva to the base of the man’s penis) and swiveling her hips. In case the man wishes to orgasm first (or too soon), all the woman has to do is stop moving. Soon a mutual orgasm will arrive (as she restarts her movements).

Position #2 – Stopping Up the Doorway

Here is a face to face position, where also the hands of the lovers are free to caress each other while the man is penetrating deeply, stimulating not only the woman’s clitoris but also her g-spot.

With the woman lying on her back, the man (from on top) grabs the woman’s legs and makes them to rest on his shoulders. The woman will help guide his penis into her vagina, but also, without guidance, the penis can easily enter the vagina or anus should that be desirable. The man is prone but resting on his knees.

The woman is completely filled up by the man, and the two lovers are toughing and pressing hard at her vulva and his penis root. Although the man is thrusting, the woman can repel and counter-thrust each time. The woman might herself grab the man’s buttocks, and pull him even closer and if thrusting, make each thrust more forceful.

The couple soon arrives to mutual orgasm and as the man’s penis it set to the opening of the uterus; his sperm are ejaculated directly in the best place for conception.

Position #3 – The Stack

In this position, the man must do all the work, but what a pleasant work it is. With the woman lying down on the bed, in prone position (on her stomach) width legs spread apart.

The man will work to get the vagina wet, either by oral caress, manual stimulation, or with the use of a lubricant. When the vulva has opened, the man lies on top of the woman, and as he enters her vagina with his erect penis, the woman will slowly close her legs. The penis is trapped now in her vagina, and the man is free to caress the woman to whatever part of her body his hands can reach.

While the man is thrusting, the woman can begin contraction of her kegels to enhance the sexual experience for the man, and also for herself as this creates added friction during the man’s thrusting.

Position #4 – V for Victory!

The V position is unequalled for the dominant man seeking full surrender from the woman. While the woman lays down on her back, the man approaches and squats in front of the woman, and opens and holds her legs (from the ankles) wide apart to form a V. The woman is fully exposed, completely open, and the man then enters her vagina with a slight forceful movement.

Now the man can thrust and rummage the woman to his heart’s content, with full strokes or partial, but always in a rhythmical manner.

It is often useful for the man to withdraw completely, and re-enter in the same forceful manner as the first penetration. At this juncture, the man should press home till orgasm, depositing her sperm directly at the uterus entrance. The woman can easily swoon from such a pleasure as she may have never received before.

Try the above Kama Sutra positions and you will find them as effective and enjoyable as they were over 1,500 years ago.

The Kama Sutra is a group of Indian texts written by a scholar named Vatsyayana Mallanaga. The term Kama Sutra is derived from two Sanskrit words Kama and Sutra which means desire and guide respectively; when translated literally, Kama Sutra means a Treatise on Pleasure.

As known by the masses, the Indian Kama Sutra is a classic text used as a guide to love making and also as a reflection of the social traditions of India. A lot of people who have read or have heard about the Kama Sutra simply see the book as a manual on unconventional sexual positions; however, the Indian Kama Sutra is viewed by scholars as a classic text with historical importance. The book is about living, with texts on how to find a partner, how to maintain a marriage, and how to perform sexual intercourse.

Man has three chief goals in life, according to the Indian Kama Sutra. These goals are duty and responsibility for one’s actions or Dharma; the acquisition of power through wealth and politics or Arta; and pleasure or Kama.

The book has several sections that give advice on how to live one’s life. The initial chapters of the book discuss man’s three main priorities, how to acquire knowledge, the behavior of a townsman brought up with good breeding and many other items. The second section details the sexual positions and techniques. This is only one small part of the book; however this section focused on the sexual positions has given the book its popularity in the Western world. The succeeding sections discuss such topics as how to acquire a wife, the duty of a wife, the behavior of men and women, courtesans, and how to attract others by improving one’s physical attractiveness.

There are originally just eight positions detailed on the book, and eight variations per position, making a total of sixty four positions in all. There are several categories on the art of love making as detailed in the Indian Kama Sutra written by Vatsyayana. These categories are the sitting positions, the standing positions, the rear-entry positions, the woman on top positions, and the man on top positions.

People who choose to read the Indian Kama Sutra should read the book as a whole and try to apply the advice and teachings discussed in the book to real life. It should also be kept in mind that the book is not merely a guide on how to perform sex, but as a guide on how to live one’s life better and to establish better relationships with the people around him.