Couples who actually care for their relationship always make time to make great love with their partner.  There are 5 things to keep in mind for improving your love making techniques and satisfying her the right way.

1. Don’t just talk! Communicate

It’s the need for sex, closeness, emotional connections that draw people together. Love, friendship, communication and  attraction are the glue that keep the bond between lovers strong and stable.  Make it habit to chat to one another everyday about how you’re feeling. Of course both of you are probably very busy people, but that’s precisely why it’s important to talk. 

Don’t assume that simply because your other half loves you, that they will be able to read your mind and understand your feelings. The simplest way to appreciate ther other is simply through good communication.

2. Kiss like Teenages

Did you know that the Kama Sutra lists 19 different types of kissing?

The kiss is one thing that couples must not take for granted. Couples who’ve been together for a very long time simply make love and often head straight to the intercourse. The kiss is an incredibly intimate event, one which can express passion, love, intensity and arousal – all in one go!

When meeting your lover after a long day, in bed at night, or while going out to the mall – simply take the time to kiss gently and with intention. It will make your partner feel incredibly special.

3. Sensual Touch

There’s a wealth of information on the different “erotic zones” which  females respond to and enjoy. These are  “hot spots” that can set her off into a frenzy, if carried out the right way. Learning all about touch and the different sensual massage techniques to female arousal will hugely increase your love making skills as well as her pleasure.

Hot spots on a woman inlcude the lower back, inner thighs, neck, hands and forehead (obviously excluding the intimate areas which should only be explored after at least 15 – 20 minutes of gentle carressing of the hot spots). Slow and sensual touching allows a woman’s arousal to slowly and deeply build up to a level which allows her to experience incredible pleasure and satisfaction during intercourse. By not indulging and pamering your lover with atleast 20 minutes of foreplay, you will prevent an increase in arousal, and therefore satisfaction, and may reduce her interest in you and physical intimacy all together.

4. Ask questions

Find out what she likes during  intercourse. Often women don’t enjoy sex because there are things or aspects of your technique  that she  is not comfortable with or does not like, or perhaps there are reasons personal to her. If you don’t ask you won’t know!

Encourage your lover to explore her sexual curiousity. Perhaps there are sex positions that she isn’t ok with but she is scared to tell you, or ones that she is interested in trying out. What is vitally important is that she is  comfortable and relaxed enough to forget all her inhibitions and just surrender to fabulous lovemaking with you.  Often ladies are nervous to give their all during sexual play because they are not emotionally motivated.  An appreciated woman is a passionate woman! Make her feel loved, beautiful and let her know that she’s the sexiest lady for you. Take the time to listen to her, help her out, and to give her some time and focus.

5. Oral Pleasure

Nothing tops off great love making like female oral sex pleasure. That’s why it is vital that you understand how to touch her in the right places and give longer oral sex for her to get fully aroused and responsive to intercourse.

Remember that less is more. Start slowly by gently kissing and nibbling the inner thighs moving slowing along them, teasing her at the same time. Stroke her stomach, thighs and hips. Stimulate the outer vaginal lips for atleast 5 – 10 minutes before proceeding on to the clittoris. Apply a variety of tongue strokes to the clittoris, making sure that you move in  a rythym i.e. apply 5 left to right strokes of the tongue, rest, and then repeat. Do this 3 -4 times,  and then change the movement of your tongue. Add variety and keep her guessing.

Now there you have it gentlemen. The keys tips to better love making and female pleasure.

Erotic massage is the perfect way to relax and enjoy intimacy without demands. The Kama Sutra teaches us that sexual energy is the highest source of energy in the world and it is central to our well-being and to finding wholeness and enlightenment. Nude erotic massage is an important aspect of finding release and closeness with yourself and your partner.

Always begin with a comfortable environment. Make sure the temperature in the room is sufficiently warm so the receiver will not be chilled when removing their clothing. A massage table provides the best access to the receiver’s body and can provide the most comfort as well. But if you do not have a massage table, a bed or something similar can be used. Dim the lights but do not turn them off.

Invest in some quality massage oil. You might like to choose one that is scented such as lavender for relaxation or cinnamon for excitement. Massage oil is very important in a nude massage. It softens the hands of the give to avoid scratches from rough hands and helps the hands glide over the surface of the body with ease. It will also create warmth that penetrates the skin from the friction of the hands movement.

To begin the receiver should disrobe completely and lie face down on the table or bed. The giver will pour massage oil into his/her hands and rub them together to soften their skin and warm their hands. Then pour additional oil on the back of the receiver. Remember, you can never use too much oil. Begin the massage by working the shoulders, neck and back. Take your time and relax. Encourage the receiver to remain relaxed as well.

Continue on kneading and rubbing the arms, hands and fingers and then continuing on to the lower half of the body. The goal is to touch and massage every part of the body from head to toe. When you have completed the massage of the back have the receiver turn over and do the same to the front of the body as you did to the back.

Remember to move slowly and to be gentle at all times. Watch and listen to the receiver for cues as to their sensual enjoyment. Ask them how they are feeling and if there is something they particularly liked or did not like. Encourage quite communication throughout the erotic massage.  Allow plenty of time to complete the massage. One hour up to two hours is not too much.