Hi honey! I have a question…

Do you know what women think when a penis is below average???

Well, let me resolve this intriguing dilemma!

In my last article I briefly mentioned the average penis size to be about 5 1/2 and 6 inches. This number was based on research conducted by the Kinsey Institute in Indiana. So what happens when men fall below the average quota? Do women laugh and tell all their friends about it or do they secretly hope you can make up for it?

Below I’ll answer all your questions plus give you secret tips on how to make her think you are absolutely amazing in bed, regardless of size!

What goes through her mind when she sees your penis?

I’m going to be honest here, when women first discover their partner’s penis is below average they are disappointed. But that’s not the final conclusion. A woman will never decide to stop sex before it begins simply by the site of your penis. After the initial disappointment, she will give you an opportunity to make up for your small size.

At this point she’s thinking, “We’ll maybe he’s on the small size but let’s see what he can do.” She hopes that although her partner is small, he knows how to use his size as an advantage. In fact, most women know that men with small penises usually master several techniques to satisfy women.

Haven’t you heard about the stereo type of men with smaller penises? Read on.

Why men with small penises are better lovers

Most men aren’t aware of this, but men with smaller penis size must work twice as hard to remove a woman’s initial disappointment. This factor makes them a far better lover then men with average or bigger penis size. The reason I say this is because men with larger penises usually rely only on their member to satisfy women. They rarely explore other regions such as oral sex and foreplay which is an even bigger disappointed to women.

On the other hand, men with smaller penises usually master several techniques to please women. They are known to give great oral sex, penetrate in ways bigger size men can not, and be extremely passionate.

A woman would rather have a partner with a smaller penis size who knows how to please her in multiple ways then a man with a big penis who does not. This is why it is said that men with small penises are better lovers.

Tips to be a great lover, regardless of size!

Many men assume that sexual satisfaction for women depends on penis size. They’re wrong. Women need various stimulants to be satisfied sexually. They must be satisfied mentally as well as physically. In fact, some studies have found that as many as 46% of women suffer from sexual unsatisfaction. This stems from a boring sex life and inability to orgasm.

The reason so many women don’t experience an orgasm is because they, and their partners, aren’t exploring other areas of sexual satisfaction.

The truth is penis size has little to do with sexual satisfaction since not all women orgasm from intercourse. Many women need stimulation from oral sex, sexual massage, or sex toys to orgasm.

Below are hot ways to make your women experience the greatest sex of her life, regardless of size; she will be coming back for more!

Master foreplay

An essential to giving women an amazing sexual experience is foreplay. While most men have foreplay techniques not all have what it takes to stand apart from the rest. This means taking foreplay to another level. Are you ready to get creative?

Body Massage Candle

Candles are necessary to setting the mood. It’s a definite must to start the night off in the right foot. You can bring this element a step further by lighting body massage candles instead of regular ones. Body massage candles are meant to be more than decoration; they are made to melt into sensual massage oil. Simply light the candle and drizzle the warm oil on your lover’s body; she will be highly aroused as the warm oil touches her skin. Since the wax turns into oil, it’s the perfect opportunity for an erotic body massage.

Most women have never heard of the body massage candle, when you introduce this nice surprise, she’ll be wondering what else you have in store!

Sensitizing Cream

After you set the mood for sex; it’s time to enhance her sexual experience; opt for sensitizing cream. Sensitizing cream is a lubricant wich promotes genital blood flow. There are sensitizing creams available for both men and women. The ones designed for women promote clitoral blood flow which is essential for orgasms. Clitoral blood flow helps increase a woman’s sex drive, sensitivity, and climax.

Once the sensitizing cream is applied to her vaginal lips and clitoris, your every touch will be arousing. The increased clitoral blood flow makes it possible for women who have difficulty achieving an orgasm during sex experience orgasms easier and stronger.

Sensitizing creams for men work wonders as well. Since they also promote genital blood flow; they work to increase the size and hardness of erections. Your erection will be the biggest and hardest you’ve ever had. They also increase stamina, so that you stop when you want to. What more can you ask for?

Sex Furtniture

It’s time to take sex off of the bed onto a more exciting location with sex furniture. Flat surfaces, such as the bed are boring compared to the angles in sex furniture. Sex furniture is designed in multiple shapes to offer different angles for maximum penetration, it is the sure fire way to boost your sexual experience.

Couples can find perfect angles with the various sex furniture products out there; my favorite are from Loving Angles. Their sex furniture is so discreet it can be added to your home decor without anyone knowing. This allows couples to take advantage of sexual moments when they arise.

Another popular model is known as the Liberator. Several of my friends have told me that it’s worth every penny of its price.

Remember, when buying sex furniture choose one that can be decorated into your own home since research shows products which are hidden rarely get used.

After all great sex is all about getting into the right position. A small change in angle can be the difference between “ok” sex and outrageous sex!

Kama Sutra

Speaking of angles, the Kama Sutra is an amazing book which offers great ideas for sex positions. The Kama Sutra is often overlooked and most men don’t take the time to learn about new sex positions. This is a shame because men are not mastering a valuable tool in sex; that is finding the perfect angle.

Different sex positions offer men unique angles for ultimate penetration. This works to benefit both men and women as certain positions offer g-spot stimulation; a spot often missed with standard sex positions. G-spot orgasms are very intense for women and often lead to female ejaculation. This can be very exciting for both men and women.

Men with smaller penis should refer to the Kama Sutra to get maximum penetration. With the right position a smaller penis size allows men to penetrate and hit spots deeper in the vagina that will normally hurt a woman. This means, men with smaller penis size are able to please women in ways that men with larger penises can not. Isn’t that a boost to the ego!

Finally, men who are below average in penis size should not assume that they aren’t able to satisfy women. Don’t get hung up on the question of quarter-inches! Be confident and adventurous. With the right attitude such as being creative in foreplay and in sex, women will see your size (regardless of what it is) as an advantage.

Show women that indeed you master several skills in pleasing her. Learn about new sex positions, sex creams, and sex furniture to show women you put your time and effort to giving her the best sex ever. With all these factors in use, she’ll think you’re the ultimate lover and will brag to her friends on the great things you can do!

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With Love,

~ Gabrielle Moore

There are many sexual positions that can be described, but few are known to enhance both the male and female orgasm.

There is one from the Kama Sutra and one from the Perfumed Garden that are sure to bring the lovers to a swift and profound orgasm and climax.

The Human Orgasm

Strangely enough, there are very few clear answers to what the human orgasm is. We know that certainly during orgasm our bodies and mental states are temporary altered.

Sigmund Freud made some clear separations in the female orgasm with a separation between clitoral and vaginal orgasms…stating that the former was not good, and the latter was much better .

This concept has been large abandoned in today’s world.

We do know our bodies (males in their ways and females in their ways) undergo changes such as heart rate, blood pressure, sensitivity of the skin, chemical changes (hormones in the bloodstream) and so on.

It appears that now in 2007 we still rely on the studies of Masters and Johnson (Sexual Response Cycle) to understand what is going on during our orgasm.

Advice form the Kama Sutra (on the best sexual position for enchanted orgasm)

Often called the Conch, this position will stimulate a woman’s clitoris, her g-spot and make her feel filled up.

When performed well, both partners reach an immense orgasm of unforgettable magnitude. The Kama Sutra explains it like this:

The woman will lay on her back,

the man positions (kneels) himself between her open legs, raising them,

The woman will hook her feet over his thighs, or even over his shoulders,

Then he will fondle her breasts, enjoying her well: this is known as Manmathpriya

More specifically, and in today’s language, the woman lies down on their back with her legs resting on the man’s shoulders.

The man then enters her from a kneeling position.

The man’s penis is inserted to it’s full depth inside her vagina and; and with some proper thrusting, the woman receives and immense pleasure from this feeling. She feels very full, and the man too, finds himself lost in pleasure.

For even extra depth, a small pillow can be pleased under the woman’s buttocks, and even the man with a small than average penis can achieve a great satisfaction for the woman in this position.

Advice from the Perfumed Garden

From all of the positions mentioned, this is the one that brings the greatest orgasm, as it (as in the Conch from the Kama Sutra) causes great clitoral and g-spot stimulation. In the words of the great Sheikh Nefzaoui,

THIRTEENTH MANNER – Dok el arz (pounding on the spot).

The man sits down with his legs stretched out; the woman then places herself astride on his thighs, crossing her legs behind the back of the man, and places her vulva opposite his member, which latter she guides into her vagina; she then places her arms round his neck, and he embraces her sides and waist, and helps her to rise and descend upon his verge. She must assist in his work.

The Kama Sutra is ancient text that revolves around human sexual behavior. It is believed to be written by Vatsyayana around 4 AD. The Kama Sutra is an integral part of Tantric Sex. Its basic seven positions can be used greatly to your and your partner’s advantage during Tantric lovemaking.

Kama Sutra Positions – Which One is BEST for You?

The Kama Sutra has seven basic positions.

- Shakti Position (woman on top);

- Shiva Position (man on top);

- Kneeling Position (sort of like the missionary position but her legs are bent; her feet resting flatly on his chest);

- Transverse Position (side-to-side or popularly known as the ’scissors’ position);

- Cow Position (rear entry or more popularly known as doggy-style);

- Yab-Yum Position (sitting and facing each other; legs entwining or embracing the other’s body)

- Dancing Position (man is standing; she has her arms wrapped around his neck and her legs wrapped around his waist).

Again, let me remind you that Tantric sex is all about making love and deriving the most sexual pleasure from your body for the longest time. This is not about reaching an orgasm. As such, you should actually NOT go for the position that heightens your sexual tension most at the start.

For example, for most women the Shakti position (woman on top) is the one that usually brings them to reach a climax. So why start with this? Do you want her to come now and end the lovemaking? Why not make love for hours instead of just minutes? Are you beginning to understand the principles of Tantric sex now?

Now for men, it is said that the most sexual tension comes using the Kneeling Position (missionary-type) and the Cow Position (rear entry). So again, why go directly for these positions and end sexual pleasure immediately?

You may be thinking that Tantric sex is bordering on sadism. Not at all. Just because you’re depriving yourself of release (now anyway) does not mean your body is wind up like a tension freak toy all the time you’re making love. There are plenty of way you can ‘relax’ and bring yourself down from the ‘point of no return’.

Besides, delaying orgasm also enables you to experience one at a whole new different level. Think about it. Now, you come within just a few minutes of starting sex, right? Well, just imagine the ultimate pleasure of coming, oh, say 5 hours from now? That’s definitely worth aiming for isn’t it?

Now, back to the Kama Sutra positions.

How Do You Ensure You Don’t Climax Right Away?

Now that you know which positions are best for her and which ones are best for you to reach climax (NOT your goal yet), what should you do? For one you can start intercourse with the other positions first. (That would be fun!) And as you move towards the other more ‘tension-filled’ ones, remember that it’s all about the amount of tension and friction you guys exercise.

For example, in the Kneeling Position (missionary-type), don’t just penetrate your partner. Instead, try this Tantric sex exercise.

- Ask her to lie on her back and gently coax her legs apart.

- Ask her if she wants the use of nay lubricant. If you’re not hard yet, that’s ok. No pressure, remember?

- Now, get into the Kneeling Position and slowly start to touch your manhood against her inner thighs. (You can hold your manhood or simply let it drag over her body for now.)

- After a few ‘grazes’, you’ll probably have a hard on by now. Go over her inner things, belly, and vagina lips again. This time would your erect manhood. (That would be a totally different texture feel for her.)

- Now, start rubbing your manhood against her opening. Gently.

- Ask her permission to enter her. Remember, Tantric sex is also a lot about respecting each other’s bodies and wishes.

- Once you get approval, move in slow gentle circles without penetration for a few minutes. (If you’ve pre-discussed using a condom, now is the time to put it on.)

- Place your manhood on her clit and slowly bring it down to her opening.

- Penetrate her ever so slowly.

- Proceed with intercourse with very slow strokes.

Once you do this exercise, you will realize that starting slowly and deliberately automatically prevents you from seeking ‘instant gratification’ in the form of sexual release. While doing this exercise, practice Tantric breathing so that your body is never tense and that all your senses are simply tuned to enjoying each stroke you make.