If asked, most people would say the classical guide to sex was the Kama Sutra. Not so.

In China about the same time as the Kama Sutra, the Chinese classic, The Golden Lotus was written by Hou Hui.

The book itself is sexually explicit and describes a man’s action with two concubines, as well as his wives.

In careful reading of the book, one can find three very special sexual positions, quite characteristically Chinese, which are such to please any sexually adventurous couple today.

The Horse Position

The woman will lie on her back, with her buttocks at the edge of the bed or even a table.

The man will kneel on cushions in front of her (or stand if she is on a table), and when ready will penetrate the woman, while caressing her breasts and fondling her clitoris.

No thrusting is required, just a rocking motion, and keep maximum penetration., The woman can asl0 grip the man’s waist with her feet crossed.

The man keeps pressing himself against the woman, and the woman can tighten her grip with her crossed feet.

This gives both the man and the woman extreme pleasure, as the pressure acts to join and connect the two lovers.

Furthermore, the man will be able to feel the woman’s vagina contracting, while the woman can feel each subtle movement of the man’s penis. Orgasm follows quickly in this position for both partners.

The Double Lotus Pose

As the name suggests, the man will sit in the classic lotus or semi-lotus position on the floor or bed.

The woman will mount the man sitting in lotus pose and insert his erect penis firmly into her vagina.

The woman will wrap her legs around the man’s waist, and the couple will embrace. The couple are free to kiss, while the man’s hands can fondle the woman’s buttocks or breasts.

There is no thrusting, only a pressing rhythmic motion. This position gives great pleasure to the couple, and they can remain joined in this position for a very long time.

The Golden Crane

The man will kneel at the edge of a bed or stand at the end of a table in front of the ready woman lying on her back.

The man will hold the woman’s legs apart, with his hands gripping her ankles. With the woman’s legs held apart, the man then penetrates her from his standing or kneeling position.

As in the Horse Pose, penetration is very deep, The man must be careful and not to go to quickly as this may cause the woman undesirable pain.

This position is highly stimulating for the man, so it must not be done by those men who arrive at their crisis too early.

All three of these positions are well known by Chinese and other oriental men of sexual experience, and are considered the three best Chinese sexual positions.

The Pangaea Ranga was written sometime in the twelfth century AD in India.

Unlike the Kama Sutra which is a manual for a man’s life, the Ananga Ranga is a love manual, pure and simple.

The information it contains is meant to be the advice to keep a husband and wife together.

Many of the sexual positions from the Ananga Ranga are taken from the Kama Sutra however,the translation into English was done by Sir Richard Burton, as were so many other texts of priceless literature.

First Real Sex Manual

The Ananga Ranga is truly a sex manual, and contains advice of all kinds including sexual positions and techniques. Here follows some of these positions which are suited to oriental body types, but may prove a real challenge to the European or American couple.

Gajasawa, the Elephant Posture).

The woman will lie down in such a position that her face, breast, stomach, and thighs all touch the bed.

Then the man will lay down on top of the woman, but bending himself like an elephant, with the small of the back, much drawn in, finds her genitals, enters, penetrates, and moves in a pulsating manner.

The Large Bee Position:

The woman, places her man at full length upon the bed, then sits and squats upon his thighs, and the man will penetrate her.

She then closes her legs firmly after he has effected penetration: and the woman will begin to move her waist in a circular motion, and completely satisfies herself.

The Cow-Posture (note the cultural differences.

This is a variation what the Americans call doggy style, but the dog was an unclean animal, and thus any reference to it was avoided):

Here the woman places herself upon all fours, supported on her hands and feet (but not her knees), then the man, enters from the rear, taking hold of the woman’s waist, forcefully penetrates her, and enjoys her as if he were a bull.

The Sitting Posture for when both man and woman are sitting. Here the woman will slightly raises one leg by placing the hand under it, and the penetrates her and enjoys her fully.

Some Interesting Information for the Man and Woman

• When the man is tired, the woman on top position must be used.

• The woman should learn to handle a man’s penis as if it were the tit of a cow, and milk it.

• A woman should learn the technique of developing her vaginal muscles so that not even a motion is required to bring the man to orgasm, but the contractions she is able to produce.

• The couple must practice sexual variety, as lack of it will soon cause both man and woman to seek different sensations from others.

• When a woman’s vagina has lost its tightness and has become slack, the man should press her legs together during sexual activity and she will appear tight once again.

• If the woman is stronger than the man, she must open her legs very wide, and let the man penetrate her. She will weaken immediately.

These are only a few gems from this timeless classic, whose advice today is as appropriate now as it was then.

This shower sex game is a fun way to engage in sexual playful banter. It’s a nice deviation to other sex games that actually require couples to be slow and quiet.

This sex game though can be a bit deceiving. It starts of more on the fun side but the consequences are extremely sensual, making it the perfect sex game for beginners. You know, those who are not yet fully comfortable getting naked in the bathroom with their lover there as well.

How to Play the Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl Sex Game

First off, you guys need water pistols! Get into the bathroom with your undergarments still on. Fill the water pistol with water and try as much as you can to drench your lover’s underwear with water. (It would be fantastic if she’s wearing translucent undies!) This would be a great voyeur-type of experience for you!

What about her then? She can of course do the same. In fact, you guys can try and `shoot’ at each other at the same time and after a given period (bring a timer inside the bathroom), check which one’s undergarments are more drenched in water. The one that’s more soaked loses and as such must remove all his/her clothes off!

The one who’s now completely naked should stand against the wall while the other one is on the opposite end of the bathroom. The one still with clothes should then try to `aim’ at his/her lover’s body. This time though, instead of using water, use diluted chocolate.

Use anything that has a bit of color and is EDIBLE. After, say 30 seconds or so of `shooting’, the shooter gets to lick off each and every part of the other’s body that was hit by the chocolate. Of course, the shooter should hit as many erogenous zones on his/her partner’s body possible.

Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl Sexual Playing Cards

A variation of this sex game is to make use of adult playing cards. Draw a card and see which body part you should aim for. If you hit the spot, then draw a card from the Kama Sutra set of playing cards (or any similar deck) and perform the deed on the card. On the other hand, if you miss the spot, your partner gets to draw from her `penalties box’ which can either be sexually related or a chore you have to do!

Another variation to this sex game is to make full use of that timer you brought along. Pick a card to see which body part you should aim for. If you hit the spot, then draw a card from the Kama Sutra set of playing cards (or any similar deck) and perform the deed on the card but this time, only for a specific period of time. You can have another deck of cards where you can pick out time or simply apply an ascending time period. So for example, you can start off the time period at 5 seconds, and then for the second deed, go for 10 seconds, and so on.

Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl Bull’s Eye Board

This time, instead of `shooting’ at each other, aim at a sexual dart board of some kind. Shoot at the board with your water pistol and see which sexual activity it lands on. You then of course need to do the deed so aim for sexual activities that you’d like to perform instead of receive. If you don’t hit anything on the board, then you completely miss your sexual treat and it’s your partner’s turn to aim at the board!

As mentioned above, a sex game involving shower pistols seems to be more fun than `serious’ and as such is a great way to encourage your partner to start engaging in sex games. Of course, as you can tell from the likely consequences that that’s quite deceiving. But don’t worry, once your lover is already into the game, it’s quite hard to back off from it because of the sexual pleasures it can bring.

Just remember that there’s really no `competition’ here. Don’t get annoyed if you miss treats or if your partner never seems to hit a target! Just think of all the practice you need to do to get this right.

Enjoy yourselves!