Here are three detailed explanations of some of the top Kama Sutra positions.

The Basket Position: In The Basket Position the man should be sitting down with his back against the bed rest while the woman sits on him controlling the penetration. The man will then passionately penetrate the woman, for deeper penetration he can grab her pelvis for extra support. This position is exciting for both partners giving them control over the movements and penetration.

The Clip Position: The clip position is extremely exciting for both couples but the man gets to lay back and enjoy the passion while watching his partner in action. Similar to the basket position the man will lie flat on his back and the woman will take control and ride the man with passionate sex. With hands freed the man could feel the woman’s breast and clitoris given back reward for the hard work from his partner.

The Doggie Position: The doggy position is as exciting for the man as it is for the woman. In this position the man can either stand up straight while the woman bends over or they can both get on their knees. There is much more control for the man when standing straight and this position allows for the woman to have her share of control also. While having passionate sex in this position the man becomes the dominant controller but he can allow his partner to have some control also by allowing her to move back and forth at the penetration desired.

When practicing new sexual positions be creative, there are many ways we can position our bodies together to form sexual positions.

The real estate mantra ‘location, location, location’ could equally well describe the  preoccupation many people have about getting it right in bed; so much so that perfectionism has reduced sex to little more than position, position, position.  This kind of pressure is supposedly all about being creative between the sheets … or should I say on the kitchen table, perhaps with you served up as the whores d’vour?

Starting with ancient sex manuals like the Kama Sutra, much has been written about spicing up your sex life.  But how many of us get turned on by flipping through a manual while trying to crack a hand-stand in pursuit of a new, more imaginative position? 

It stands to reason that the longer you and your partner have been together the more you’re likely to get into the same old habits. But, if the routine satisfies both of you, then what’s the issue with sticking to positions like the missionary, spooning or styles inspired by Fido? 

The missionary got both its name and a bad rep because the idea of male-on-top suited the establishment’s ideas on what was deemed ‘decent’ in the bedroom.  Anyone who has tried it will know that the missionary is one of the hardest positions from which to satisfy a woman and it was only relevant during times when delighting in coitus was considered wicked for women. 

But if the missionary blows your pubic hair back, chuck out the manuals that suggest otherwise and get on with whatever you consider constitutes a good time.

The idea of inventive sex was initiated to break the missionary mould but today the obsession with ‘getting it right’ has made men and women so guarded and self-conscious that it has sucked the creative juices right out of the reality of being satisfactorily laid.  

It’s common knowledge that creativity and perfectionism cannot co-exist, so if you are fixated about which body part may or may not be shaved and whether you are revealing your cellulite or that wobbly bum, then no matter what position you take, sex will just end up being a mission.

The funny thing about vaginas and penises is that both are quite simple tools to operate; neither needs a complicated instruction manual.  The problem is not the tools so much as the workman and, as each of us enjoys different things, the only direction required is to guide your partner to the hotspots that turn you on. 

Humans have been enjoying sex for thousands of years without having to rely upon manuals, toys and faux nurse’s outfits.   So whether you’re getting your rocks off camping in a cave, soaking in a Jacuzzi or having sex on the beach, the only position important to take is to make sure you’re having fun.

Fun and creativity are products of spontaneity and no one can be spontaneous when we plan a strategy as to where, when, how and for how long we’re going to let our hair down.  Structure destroys imagination and when your toes are pinning back your ears, little could be more off-putting than having to turn to page 64 to find out where his arms and legs belong. 

Sex manuals may be good to spark off some new ideas but, once you’re all fired up, put the book down and let your creative urges rise.  It doesn’t really matter what position you land up in as long as you both enjoy getting there.

Do take some precautions though.  I knew a couple who had a preference for backseat bonking at insane hours of the morning.  On one occasion they chose a quiet golf-course parking lot thinking that the only balls in play would be swung by something flimsier than a five-iron.   However, upon reaching the crescendo they were unexpectedly applauded by a group of early-rising caddies who were overjoyed by such an extraordinary hole-in-one.

Laughter releases tension and can also ease awkward moments so, if you want him pitching tents in his Boxers, being naturally playful is more likely to get the big top up than assuming a position.  

Performance anxiety affects both men and women making it difficult for either to rise to the occasion.  Trying too hard will put the kibosh on creativity and this never-ending quest to get sex right is, in fact, the only way to get it really wrong. 

So, for all you’ve ever wanted to know about your position on positions, just ask your fertile imagination and let the hay roll from there on.

When you are beginning your exploration into the more sexual aspects of your life one of the first and most famous books that you might hear or read about is the Kama Sutra.

Of course, once you are ready to explore many of the different positions that are in the Kama Sutra you might find yourself ready to invest in a quality personal lubricant.

While water-based personal lubricants are perhaps the safest and healthiest sex lubes that you can choose from, perhaps you are ready to explore a silicone based sexual lubricant since they last longer and would allow you to explore many more sexual positions than a water based lube would.

One of the more popular silicone based personal lubricants on the market today is ironically enough called Kama Sutra Pleasure Potion.

However, before you find yourself buying this silicone based personal lubricant based solely on the name make sure you read the rest of this review to see how good of a product it really is as well as to discover a water-based alternative for those of you looking for a healthier option than what a silicone based personal lubricant can give you.

The first thing that most people look for when looking for a quality silicone based personal lubricant is a product that only has high quality silicones listed as its ingredients.
 
Kama Sutra Pleasure Potion ingredients:

• Cyclopentasiloxane
• Dimethiconol
• Cyclomethicone

As you can tell, Kama Sutra Pleasure Potion only includes high quality silicones, which means it passes one of the most important aspects to look for in a silicone based lubricant.

Of course, the other aspect is actually experiencing the lubricant for yourself or making a decision based on what others think.

When it comes to silicone based personal lubricants the one sex lubes that men and women alike have seem to agree they like more than others is the Oceanus Sensuals line of silicone based lubricants.

Then again if you are a health conscious person and while you understand the benefits of using a silicone based lubricant you still would prefer using a water based natural personal lubricant then consider Carrageenan All Natural Personal Lubricant which has a most like a woman feel to it and provides you with a host of health benefits that go far beyond simply giving you a great sexual experience.