One of the greatest hindrances couples that are in long term relationships encounter is how to make their love red, hot and steamy. In the beginning of a relationship, the excitement, urge and passion of lovemaking is hard to forget but as the initial love at first sight fades it gets harder to make things come back the way it used to be.

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Can “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by an Oprah Love Expert acclaimed author Michel Webb be the right book to bring back the love at first sight? Below is my review on it.

The book starts with a deep insight and understanding on lovemaking, explaining vital topics like adult films, bedroom toys, the importance of romance for lovemaking and an interesting facts about Kama Sutra. If you don’t know what Kama Sutra is all about, It’s an ancient Indian text that is considered to be the standard work on love, some parts of the work deals with human sexual behavior. It has a lubrication guide and 16 fully explained lovemaking postures and positions at the back of the book. These are not the main touches but the main enchanting, attracting and the bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.

I must add that when I opened the book to read, I was able to find easy to understand tips that I applied with my partner when making love and it worked as the author wrote. They are no dozens of long winded paragraphs which i use to see when i am reading other books. Everything is arranged neatly and is very satisfying on the eyes. This is a big advantage when you are about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you need some ideas.

Love making tips and secrets is a treasure full of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. It varies from oral sex tips for both men and women to the styles you can add to make foreplay more fun. It contains tips to make intercourse more enjoyable, unique methods to entice your partner such as coming out the shower with only a towel and playing with your wife and even some hot places where you can make love which most people would never have in mind. I wasn’t able to find some of the tips exciting as I expected but I found more than enough that satisfied me.

The secrets are all joined together which can makes one overwhelming. I highly recommend you skim through the whole pages of the book a few times instead of trying to read everything in it at one sitting. 500 lovemaking tips and secrets also proved what it promised early on its sales page of not containing immoral, raunchy, degrading and perverted ideas that some lovemaking books seem to have which is bad news for a consumer.

Finally, while few of the tips in the book didn’t amaze me. It could have been nice if I saw more lovemaking games. Though it’s still the most complete book of tips and ideas which one can use to improve lovemaking that I have never seen. If you’ve read my article about how to stimulate and find the g spot, some of the experiences I gathered when I tried it out was from the book.

Nothing else comes close to it compared to other lovemaking books I have ever read. Most of all, i found it exciting to read and apply in my day to day bedroom shows with my wife. If you’ve ever wished to make your bedroom shows with your partner more exciting, fun, make her scream for more or even if you just need some ideas for more pleasure I highly recommend this book for you. I assure you that your partner will be surprise and you won’t have regrets on why you read my review.

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Hand’s up – those of you who thought foreplay was just that ‘Before Play’, i.e. not the real deal. Many of us rush through foreplay with a few kisses, gropes and fumbles – if you’re lucky! 15 minutes later it’s all over and it’s the rush to orgasm and roll over.

If you are one of those people, then you could be missing a whole chuck of the seduction, arousal, and climax process. Getting foreplay right – makes the journey more fun, pleasure more intense – and orgasm – well – just MIND BLOWING. If you want to be an expert, or atleast the desire to ‘fake’ expert lover status, now’s the time to get your notebook out.

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1. The small of a woman’s back really is very sensitive. It’s even mentioned in the Kama Sutra. Take the time to gently kiss this area.

2. The lower lip is supposed to be connected to the clittoris. Gentlemen – get sucking!

3. A man’s Perinuem (the spot between the Testes and Anus) is referred to as the ‘Sacred Spot’. Use gentle and rythmic pressure on this spot to increase his arousal.

4. Hands on a woman – are an important erogenous zone in their own right! Start by kissing her hand, the fingers and her palm, and then slowly suck on one of her fingers. We think the pinky works best!

5. The triangular patch of skin on the underside of the penis head is incredibly sensitive to touch. Rubbing this area with the hand, or tongue will create great sensations.

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6. Don’f forget to kiss her neck, as well as the back of the neck. Start with the back of the neck, and then turn and face your woman, and kiss the sides of the neck. The sides of the neck are more sensitve so it’s best to work your way slowly there.

7. The inner thighs – for both sexes, are very sensitive. A great place to rub gently, kiss slowly or nibble.

8. Some of us are blessed with incrediblly sensitive ears – so make the most of this! Don’t chew or knaw – just start by gently sucking on them, followed by a gentle nibble.

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9. A litte ice on a nipple – never hurt anyone! Give him or her (especially her) a variation on the suck and slobber. Gently rub some ice over the nipple for a few minutes, and then apply your hot warm mouth over the cold errect nipple. Lovely.

10. The slippery slide effect. Get hot warm oil over naked partner and gently rub self over the body. This works best if the slide is slooowww…and luxurious

11. Keep some clothes on! This may seem a bit strange, but leaving a few clothes on (until the very very end) can make the sensations more relaxing and sensual and the excitement so powerfull!

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12. Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot. Take a few sips of some warm liquid.., and then place mouth over his or her nether regions, to give an amazing warm sensation.

13. Don’t forget the boys! Many women over look the Scrotum – as it seems to be overshadowed by an errection. Apply firm yet gentle finger tip pressure (in circles) now and again, and especially just before take off.

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14. Women love having their breasts massaged – and never ceases to amaze me how often men forget about this. Before rushing to suck and slobber, stop and pay homage to the lovely beauties, by gently massaging for atleast 10 minutes.

16. Male chests have feelings too! A gentle layering of kisses and nibbles will always be appreciated

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17. Men – if you’re worried about lasting the night – a bit of garlic, chilli and ginseng should do the trick.

18. Smell heightens the senses! And that means more pleasure and arousal. After bathing, apply small drops of perfume/cologne to the following areas: behind the ears, sides of the belly, tailbone, and behind the knees. Don’t ask me why – but it’s supposed to work.

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19. Men – relieve yourself before hand, if you’re worried about premature take off. You be less stressed, more aroused, and will last much longer.

20. When going down on a woman – don’t forget the neighbours! Do not lunge straight for the clittoris, it looks very amateurish. Gently lick and nibble the lips, the pubic mound, and inner thighs. Wait atleast 15 minutes before approaching her clit.

21. The skin underneath a woman’s breat is very sensitive to a loving kiss and nibble.

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22. Kissing a woman’s back – from the neck down – is send to stir up wild passions!

23. Men should drink a glass of warm milk before a long night. This is said to increase stamina.

24. Women allow your hair to flow over his body and manhood as you kiss and work your way down. This creates a tingling sensual experience.

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25. Suck the tip of the tongue. This is a very sensitive area. Best done inbetween gentle warm up kissing.

26. As her to ride your fingers. This has the effect of loosening a woman’s body, and is a great turn on!

27. Kiss his or her eyelids – of course very gently! This is very soothing, and relaxing.

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28. Nibble and suck on her toes – to heighten clittoral sensations

29. Place hands around penis and move slowly up and down the shaft, and finish off with a gentle massage of the head.

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30. Massage him or her …with or without oil.. Erotic Massage relaxes the body, heightens sensitivity and arousal, and is of course very pleasureable.

One of the greatest hindrances couples that are in long term relationships encounter is how to make their love red, hot and steamy. In the beginning of a relationship, the excitement, urge and passion of lovemaking is hard to forget but as the initial love at first sight fades it gets harder to make things come back the way it used to be.

Can “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by an Oprah Love Expert acclaimed author Michel Webb be the right book to bring back the love at first sight? Below is my review on it.

The book starts with a deep insight and understanding on lovemaking, explaining vital topics like adult films, bedroom toys, the importance of romance for lovemaking and an interesting facts about Kama Sutra. If you don’t know what Kama Sutra is all about, It’s an ancient Indian text that is considered to be the standard work on love, some parts of the work deals with human sexual behavior. It has a lubrication guide and 16 fully explained lovemaking postures and positions at the back of the book. These are not the main touches but the main enchanting, attracting and the bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.

I must add that when I opened the book to read, I was able to find easy to understand tips that I applied with my partner when making love and it worked as the author wrote. They are no dozens of long winded paragraphs which i use to see when i am reading other books. Everything is arranged neatly and is very satisfying on the eyes. This is a big advantage when you are about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you need some ideas.

Love making tips and secrets is a treasure full of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. It varies from oral sex tips for both men and women to the styles you can add to make foreplay more fun. It contains tips to make intercourse more enjoyable, unique methods to entice your partner such as coming out the shower with only a towel and playing with your wife and even some hot places where you can make love which most people would never have in mind. I wasn’t able to find some of the tips exciting as I expected but I found more than enough that satisfied me.

The secrets are all joined together which can makes one overwhelming. I highly recommend you skim through the whole pages of the book a few times instead of trying to read everything in it at one sitting. 500 lovemaking tips and secrets also proved what it promised early on its sales page of not containing immoral, raunchy, degrading and perverted ideas that some lovemaking books seem to have which is bad news for a consumer.

Finally, while few of the tips in the book didn’t amaze me. It could have been nice if I saw more lovemaking games. Though it’s still the most complete book of tips and ideas which one can use to improve lovemaking that I have never seen. If you’ve read my article about how to stimulate and find the g spot, some of the experiences I gathered when I tried it out was from the book. Nothing else comes close to it compared to other lovemaking books I have ever read. Most of all, i found it exciting to read and apply in my day to day bedroom shows with my wife. If you’ve ever wished to make your bedroom shows with your partner more exciting, fun, make her scream for more or even if you just need some ideas for more pleasure I highly recommend this book for you. I assure you that your partner will be surprise and you won’t have regrets on why you read my review.

LOS ANGELES – Women’s Health magazine has announced the winners of its second annual Sex Awards, including Doc Johnson and The Screaming O, both of which won last year.

Keith Caggiano, vice president of Bushman Products, the parent company of The Screaming O, said hewas thrilled to be recognized for The Screaming Octopus.

“The Screaming Octopus is a fun little product with a unique design unlike anything else on the market,”he said. “We are honored to be recognized by such a well-known publication as Women’s Health. Theyreally do their homework when it comes to these awards, and to be selected as one of the top productsfor women by women is a huge compliment.”

Chad Braverman, director of product development and licensing for Doc Johnson, said it was an honor tohave the Cocktails lube named “Best for a Naughty Nightcap.”

“Our Doc’s Cocktails brand of oral-play lubricants has been a huge retail success since its launch, andthis honor is a testament to the hard work and effort our research and development team puts into every product,” he said. “To have a top mainstream publication annually dedicate an entire feature to the worldof adult novelties says a lot about how far the industry has come, and we’re proud to be at the forefront ofthis movement.”

Among the first-time winners are Babeland, Condomania, Jimmyjane, Kama Sutra, OhMiBod and The Pleasure Chest.

Babeland’s Pink Kink Kit was named “Best for Tickle Torturing” in the “Make-up Sex” category. Marketing Coordinator Mae Schultz told ANB the kit’s overall attention to style has made it popular. “From its adorable packaging to the small white heart sewn onto the blindfolds, the Pink Kink Kit expresses a sense of fun in the bedroom the way a pair of heels or lingerie might,” she said. “Since it’s less expensive than other BDSM equipment, couples are less hesitant to try out different sensations and kinds of play that they might otherwise have not. It’s a perfect gift for friends or a partner who is curious about kink but a little shy getting started.”

The Pleasure Chest’s Rhinestone Glamour Cuffs also were recognized in the “Make-up Sex” category. David Ballow, national director of operations for The Pleasure Chest, told ANB the company is “tickled pink” about the award.

“We know that bringing a little sparkle into the bedroom is never a bad thing,” he said. “In fact, our

celebrity friends who have these cuffs fully agree. They’re the perfect beside accessory, or you can just hook them to your belt loop at a club and let ‘em know who’s in charge!”

Condomania’s “museum-quality” Art Condom line, which was released in August 2007, received the “Best for a One-Night-Stand” award in the “No-Strings Sex” category. Kevin Segall, director of marketing for Condomania, said he was honored by the recognition.

“Condomania has always strived to make safer sex more fun and accessible,” he said. “We are so pleased that popular artists like Coop, Robert Williams and Ron English are working with us to do just that.”

Kama Sutra won the “Best for Jet-Setters” award with its Strawberry Dreams Weekender Kit.

“We are glad that more health-oriented publications are recognizing the importance of sexual health in overall wellness,” Senior Vice President Beverly Pollington-Sirjani told ANB. “It is a trend that we expect to see continue. The Strawbery Dreams Weekender Kit is a great new addition to the Kama Sutra line, combining a best-selling kit with a best-selling flavor. We are not surprised that this item was chosen, as it has been selling exceptionally well.”

Other winners included the Boditalk Escort from OhMiBod, Little Ember candle set from Jimmyjane, Emerity OH! Warming Lubricant and Replens Intimate Options personal lubricant mousse.

Suki, founder and owner of OhMiBod shared her delight about the award when she told ANB, “We are excited to see that their reviewers really grasp the concept behind our Boditalk product line. We loved the clever name they came up with for our category “Long Distant Lova”. This month has been an especially good one for Boditalk escort.”

OhMiBod’s Boditalk Escort was also dubbed “The Sexiest Phone Accessory” in Maxim Magazine’s “Sexiest of Everything 2008” issue.

Visit the Women’s Health website for a complete list of winners.

Women’s Health, a sister publication to Men’s Health, is a leading consumer health and lifestyle magazine with a circulation of 450,000. It is published by Rodale.

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Every man will want to get their partners to achieve orgasms while making love. When she does not reach orgasm during lovemaking, you will feel down and lousy. But with the help of the Kama Sutra, you will be able to discover some of the classic positions that will definitely send the both of you to climax.

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1. The Doggy Position. This is a classic and highly stimulating position for couples to enjoy during lovemaking. The woman will go down on all fours, taking her weights on her forearms. The man will kneel behind her and penetrate her from the back. The position is very pleasurable for both partners as the deep penetration will not only stimulate the vaginal walls, but also the g-spot. However, some women may feel demeaning if asked to adopt this position. Therefore it will be wise for you to communicate with your partner beforehand and make sure that she is ok with it.

2. The Clip Position. This position will be very relaxing for the man as the woman will do most of the work here. The man lies down with both his legs outstretched. She will sit astride him and lean back, so that he can play with her clitoris while she is rocking. The man will have an ideal view of his partner making love to him, which will definitely turn him on greatly.

3. The Lotus Position. This is an extremely intimate and passionate position which I will strongly encourage you to try it out with your partner. The man sits with both his legs crossed on the bed. The woman will sit on him with both her legs wrapping around his waist. He will then help her to move her hips with his hands and can also caress her breasts with his mouth and stroke her buttock. Once the man has ejaculated, the couple should stay in this position and embrace each other at least for a few minutes, so as to enjoy the passionate, satisfying, intimate moment.

These 3 positions that I have shared with you are consider the best in the Kama Sutra manual according to my opinion. You may not feel the same. Do read up the Kama Sutra manual and discover the ideal position for you and your partner.

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LOS ANGELES – Women’s Health magazine has announced the winners of its second annual Sex Awards, including Doc Johnson and The Screaming O, both of which won last year.

Keith Caggiano, vice president of Bushman Products, the parent company of The Screaming O, said hewas thrilled to be recognized for The Screaming Octopus.

“The Screaming Octopus is a fun little product with a unique design unlike anything else on the market,”he said. “We are honored to be recognized by such a well-known publication as Women’s Health. Theyreally do their homework when it comes to these awards, and to be selected as one of the top productsfor women by women is a huge compliment.”

Chad Braverman, director of product development and licensing for Doc Johnson, said it was an honor tohave the Cocktails lube named “Best for a Naughty Nightcap.”

“Our Doc’s Cocktails brand of oral-play lubricants has been a huge retail success since its launch, andthis honor is a testament to the hard work and effort our research and development team puts into every product,” he said. “To have a top mainstream publication annually dedicate an entire feature to the worldof adult novelties says a lot about how far the industry has come, and we’re proud to be at the forefront ofthis movement.”

Among the first-time winners are Babeland, Condomania, Jimmyjane, Kama Sutra, OhMiBod and The Pleasure Chest.

Babeland’s Pink Kink Kit was named “Best for Tickle Torturing” in the “Make-up Sex” category. Marketing Coordinator Mae Schultz told ANB the kit’s overall attention to style has made it popular. “From its adorable packaging to the small white heart sewn onto the blindfolds, the Pink Kink Kit expresses a sense of fun in the bedroom the way a pair of heels or lingerie might,” she said. “Since it’s less expensive than other BDSM equipment, couples are less hesitant to try out different sensations and kinds of play that they might otherwise have not. It’s a perfect gift for friends or a partner who is curious about kink but a little shy getting started.”

The Pleasure Chest’s Rhinestone Glamour Cuffs also were recognized in the “Make-up Sex” category. David Ballow, national director of operations for The Pleasure Chest, told ANB the company is “tickled pink” about the award.

“We know that bringing a little sparkle into the bedroom is never a bad thing,” he said. “In fact, our

celebrity friends who have these cuffs fully agree. They’re the perfect beside accessory, or you can just hook them to your belt loop at a club and let ‘em know who’s in charge!”

Condomania’s “museum-quality” Art Condom line, which was released in August 2007, received the “Best for a One-Night-Stand” award in the “No-Strings Sex” category. Kevin Segall, director of marketing for Condomania, said he was honored by the recognition.

“Condomania has always strived to make safer sex more fun and accessible,” he said. “We are so pleased that popular artists like Coop, Robert Williams and Ron English are working with us to do just that.”

Kama Sutra won the “Best for Jet-Setters” award with its Strawberry Dreams Weekender Kit.

“We are glad that more health-oriented publications are recognizing the importance of sexual health in overall wellness,” Senior Vice President Beverly Pollington-Sirjani told ANB. “It is a trend that we expect to see continue. The Strawbery Dreams Weekender Kit is a great new addition to the Kama Sutra line, combining a best-selling kit with a best-selling flavor. We are not surprised that this item was chosen, as it has been selling exceptionally well.”

Other winners included the Boditalk Escort from OhMiBod, Little Ember candle set from Jimmyjane, Emerity OH! Warming Lubricant and Replens Intimate Options personal lubricant mousse.

Suki, founder and owner of OhMiBod shared her delight about the award when she told ANB, “We are excited to see that their reviewers really grasp the concept behind our Boditalk product line. We loved the clever name they came up with for our category “Long Distant Lova”. This month has been an especially good one for Boditalk escort.”

OhMiBod’s Boditalk Escort was also dubbed “The Sexiest Phone Accessory” in Maxim Magazine’s “Sexiest of Everything 2008” issue.

Visit the Women’s Health website for a complete list of winners.

Women’s Health, a sister publication to Men’s Health, is a leading consumer health and lifestyle magazine with a circulation of 450,000. It is published by Rodale.

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Its all about what women want out of sexual relationships. The kama sutra talks [actually preaches] about the satisfaction of the males in sexual unions without the female satisfaction being considered. Today, females have taken their sexual destinies into their own hands and are no longer docile in sexual matters. Women have started talking about what they want out of sex and love making and the more daring among the female folk have actually started getting what they want out of sex and sexual relationships. More women are walking out from relationships that fail to satisfy them sexually and moving into better sexually satisfying relationships. Love making ought to be enjoyed by all parties to it and not one party to the exclusion of the other.

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The agitation for sexual satisfaction for women is a healthy development and discerning men are now realizing that sex does not end with their ejaculation or orgasm. Besides, what manner of sexual satisfaction will a woman get out of 2 minutes of copulation? Most men do not even last that long inside a woman. Such sex leaves the woman dissatisfied and empty, devoid of any form of joy from an otherwise joyful situation.

Lovemaking is not a momentary action. Lovemaking and sexual satisfaction takes hours to build up from the female perspective. The best sexual organ of the body, the brain, prepares you several hours before the actual physical sexual copulation happens. Women want to be talked to or, rather, communicated with sexually long before the actual sex. Women want to be satisfied sexually. They do not want to be treated as objects for the satisfaction of the males as the kama sutra made them out to be. Male sexual satisfaction is necessary but women also want their satisfaction out of the same sex.

Women want to be given their due sexual enjoyment. Sex is a fact of life no doubt about that. Sex and lovemaking is the spice of life. Sex [very good considerate sex] is as natural as walking, sleeping and breathing. Sex and lovemaking is the lifeblood and the bond that holds together men and women — marriages and relationships. The ultimate expression of intimacy, sex also is the core of procreation, the way humanity ensures that the human race continues. And for most couples, sex is a source of enjoyment and fellowship. So, why should the womenfolk be denied their enjoyment and fellowship from sex?

Female Kama Sutra – What Today’s Woman Wants from Sex
The following are what women want from sex and how they want to be treated prior and after sex. When you give your woman what she wants, you are promoting female kama sutra, the sexual satisfaction for women:

• sex is a seduction of the mind – mental foreplay is crucial to sexual satisfaction for a woman.
• women want to be romanced and courted always – women want to know that they are always relevant in your life. Court women with affection and communication.
• flatter your woman with desire – perceived desire does wonders to the female psyche.
• women want to be pampered and cherished. Occasional flowers and “I Love You” texts or calls or cards are important to women.
• a loving and considerate man who is not afraid to explore the female anatomy and break sexual boundaries to the female multiple orgasm
• a man who is macho enough to help the woman out with perceived female chores.
• a man who knows how to give the females sexual satisfaction always.
• a man who can give head is a darling always.

Give your woman sexual satisfaction today and join in writing the female kama sutra that will be read tomorrow. Do not deny the women sexual satisfaction.

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The real estate mantra ‘location, location, location’ could equally well describe the  preoccupation many people have about getting it right in bed; so much so that perfectionism has reduced sex to little more than position, position, position.  This kind of pressure is supposedly all about being creative between the sheets … or should I say on the kitchen table, perhaps with you served up as the whores d’vour?

Starting with ancient sex manuals like the Kama Sutra, much has been written about spicing up your sex life.  But how many of us get turned on by flipping through a manual while trying to crack a hand-stand in pursuit of a new, more imaginative position? 

It stands to reason that the longer you and your partner have been together the more you’re likely to get into the same old habits. But, if the routine satisfies both of you, then what’s the issue with sticking to positions like the missionary, spooning or styles inspired by Fido? 

The missionary got both its name and a bad rep because the idea of male-on-top suited the establishment’s ideas on what was deemed ‘decent’ in the bedroom.  Anyone who has tried it will know that the missionary is one of the hardest positions from which to satisfy a woman and it was only relevant during times when delighting in coitus was considered wicked for women. 

But if the missionary blows your pubic hair back, chuck out the manuals that suggest otherwise and get on with whatever you consider constitutes a good time.

The idea of inventive sex was initiated to break the missionary mould but today the obsession with ‘getting it right’ has made men and women so guarded and self-conscious that it has sucked the creative juices right out of the reality of being satisfactorily laid.  

It’s common knowledge that creativity and perfectionism cannot co-exist, so if you are fixated about which body part may or may not be shaved and whether you are revealing your cellulite or that wobbly bum, then no matter what position you take, sex will just end up being a mission.

The funny thing about vaginas and penises is that both are quite simple tools to operate; neither needs a complicated instruction manual.  The problem is not the tools so much as the workman and, as each of us enjoys different things, the only direction required is to guide your partner to the hotspots that turn you on. 

Humans have been enjoying sex for thousands of years without having to rely upon manuals, toys and faux nurse’s outfits.   So whether you’re getting your rocks off camping in a cave, soaking in a Jacuzzi or having sex on the beach, the only position important to take is to make sure you’re having fun.

Fun and creativity are products of spontaneity and no one can be spontaneous when we plan a strategy as to where, when, how and for how long we’re going to let our hair down.  Structure destroys imagination and when your toes are pinning back your ears, little could be more off-putting than having to turn to page 64 to find out where his arms and legs belong. 

Sex manuals may be good to spark off some new ideas but, once you’re all fired up, put the book down and let your creative urges rise.  It doesn’t really matter what position you land up in as long as you both enjoy getting there.

Do take some precautions though.  I knew a couple who had a preference for backseat bonking at insane hours of the morning.  On one occasion they chose a quiet golf-course parking lot thinking that the only balls in play would be swung by something flimsier than a five-iron.   However, upon reaching the crescendo they were unexpectedly applauded by a group of early-rising caddies who were overjoyed by such an extraordinary hole-in-one.

Laughter releases tension and can also ease awkward moments so, if you want him pitching tents in his Boxers, being naturally playful is more likely to get the big top up than assuming a position.  

Performance anxiety affects both men and women making it difficult for either to rise to the occasion.  Trying too hard will put the kibosh on creativity and this never-ending quest to get sex right is, in fact, the only way to get it really wrong. 

So, for all you’ve ever wanted to know about your position on positions, just ask your fertile imagination and let the hay roll from there on.

Yes and no. What is best sex position depends on a number of factors.  First there are several questions that need to be addressed.  Is it possible that you are able to find out if you are asking the question from your individual point of you? Or are you asking the question because you and this includes your partner want mutually enjoyable sex?  Or last but not the least , are you asking the question from the point of being pregnant?  You see now, do you not, that it is simply not a question of telling you that this sex position is the best or that is better.

There are only half dozen sex positions and the great Indian classic, Kama Sutra says that there are only four sex positions and all the rest are only variations of the four. The acrobatic and ‘twisted knots’ sex positions are merely salad dressing and nothing more.

If you are very tall and heavy, and she is tiny and on the lean side, then any position that has you putting all your weight on her is not a good position.

If a Gallup poll were to be taken of all the sex therapists in the world  and they were asked which sex position is the best, you will find four positions  are mentioned by 90 % of them. They are the woman on top position, the side-by-side position, the woman on all fours and the man  entering her from behind and the woman  lying on her back with her feet held up by the man under his arms so that her lower back is raised and maximum penetration is possible.  The other common factor in all these positions is that the woman receives both clitoral and vaginal stimulation so that she can have orgasms.

The best sex position then is the one that gives both of you maximum pleasure  and if you are both adventurous then there are always variations of these four that you can try. Lots of luck to both of you!

Sex positions have been uppermost in the minds of people ever since the sexual revolution began in the 60s and began a roller-coaster ride into the future of  unbridled sexual free-for-all.  The different forms of sexual intercourse were once the purview of dilettantes and free-living souls. Today it has become the subject of every man and woman who is concerned about having a fruitfully satisfying sexual life.

Different types of sexual intercourse are used to either make sex interesting or to help a man or woman achieve sexual fulfillment if they have been afflicted by a sexual problem.

How many postures are there? There are not more than four or five basic positions and all the rest are merely variations of these four or five positions. The most basic is the Missionary position so called because some African tribal’s in the 17th century saw the western missionary making love to his wife and thus was the name was born! The other more popular ones are rear entry vaginal penetration, woman on top, the side by side spoons and the one where the woman lies on her back with her legs placed on her partner’s shoulders. There are also the standing, kneeling or sitting sex positions.  In the standing sex position the woman has her back to a solid support slightly raised so that the man can easily penetrate her.  In the sitting posture the man sits with leg outstretched and the woman sits atop him with her legs wrapped around him. In a variation the man sits in a chair and the woman straddles him with her feet on the floor.

There are other unusual forms like the ‘Seventh Posture’. This is described fully in Burton’s translation of ‘The Perfumed Garden’. Briefly the woman lies on her side and the man straddles her lower leg and lifts her upper leg on to his shoulder or holds it under his arm.

Sex positions are found in any of the classical erotic manuals of the East like the Kama Sutra (Sanskrit), The Perfumed Garden (Arabic), Sunu miaoshan or The Admirable Discourses of the Plain Girl (Chinese) and Ishimpo or the Essence of Medical Prescriptions (Japanese).  These books are much more than sex manuals they are pieces of classical literature enlightening and entertaining.