As a relationship turns from new and exciting and started being classed as a long-term thing many couples find it harder and harder to recapture the spark of exciting, steamy sex that was so unforgettable when you first got to together.

So if you are in a long-term relationship and your sex has perhaps lost some of its excitement is “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by acclaimed author Michael Webb a good resource to bring back the fire to your bedroom? Here is what we think.

This e-book starts with an overview of lovemaking that can give you an understanding of topics including bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance and some interesting facts about the Kama Sutra. There are also guides on lubrication and a brief illustrated lovemaking position guide at the back which is handy; the main meat of the book however is in the tips themselves.

The first thing you notice is that it is clear and easy to read. Every page has about 8 to 10 tips that can really inspire your sexual side without having to read through dozens of long winded paragraphs of information beside the point. When you are in the spur of the moment this book delivers the goods by simply opening on any page.

But what about the actual tips I hear you ask? Well that is bit that makes this worthwhile.

With exactly 539 lovemaking tips all up ranging from oral sex techniques and tips for both men and for women to fun foreplay games and arousal techniques to ways to make intercourse feel unique and much more sensual. There were some that seemed a bit silly or quite obvious to me but most of them were appealing to me and my wife who enjoyed the parts about where to make love that surprised me!

A word of warning though, do not sit there and try to read through this book in one go! There is too much and it is too overwhelming, this is a book to skim first and pinpoint bits and pieces as you go rather than a cover to cover guide as the tips tend to be all mixed together.

Another bonus that my wife especially appreciated was that there was nothing degrading or perverted in this guide that some other guides seem to thrive on like it was some amateur porn training guide. All the tips were unapologetically about sex of course but did not cross the line into anything over the top or overly raunchy.

So in the end, is this what you are looking for?

If your sex life is not completely destroyed but is simply in a lull this is the best guide you can get for sheer size and amount of information. This is best for people who perhaps know they need something new to rekindle the spark but do not know where to start or even for people who might fear their sex life may start heading that way and want to make sure it does not become boring at all even if not all the tips are amazing most will get you there. This however is not a guide for people who actually have sexual problems or intimacy problems which are much more drastic.

Variety is the spice of life they say and with over 500 tips this certainly has that!

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If you take a look online or at the Kama Sutra you would be forgiven for thinking that there are so many amazing sex positions that you would be hard pressed to find a best sex position. If you are looking to bring your partner to orgasm however, many of those positions may be enjoyable but not optimum for the task.

There are a couple of good sex positions that could be considered the best but only for each gender as men and women are quite different. As an aside did you know that by varying the position by just an inch can change the intensity and feeling too? This means that you should take your time and experiment with angles a bit with these positions to find what is best for you and your partner.

The Best Sex Position For Women To Climax

For women the ‘reverse missionary’ can be the best and easiest way to an orgasm. It is like the traditional missionary position except the woman is on the top rather than the man. When the woman is on top she can control the friction on her g-spot or her clitoris and has control of speed and power as well.

Usually it is best for the women to orgasm first so once the woman is ready and aroused enough this position will allow her to climax and then you can shift to a position where the man can have control. Where you place your legs in this position can change things a great deal depending on many physical factors, try changing your legs by spreading them or bringing them together or alternating this to find what feels best.

The Best Position For Men To Orgasm

While the missionary position is also good for guys the ‘doggy style’ position is often considered better because like the missionary position it gives you good control but it has a few other benefits. Intercourse from behind while having no face to face contact (easily fixed with a mirror though) is a great position for hitting her g-spot. It also allows you full access to her sensual areas, the neck, back, bottom and reaching around you can also fondle the breasts and clitoris.

The other key aspect is deep penetration which feels great for the man and for the women, though if you are very well endowed you may need to be careful not to hit her cervix while doing this which can be very painful.

The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions

While each position mentioned has benefits and negatives and so will every other position one problem remains that couples often fall into when trying to spice of their sex life; what happens when you try every hundred different type of position you can find in sex books and online?

In the end they are all quite similar and you will incorporate the best ones for both of you into your love making and they will become standard … and often boring as it always feels the same. This is why couples need to not only explore physical positions when making love but also cultivate a spirit of adventure and inventiveness into their sex lives. This is nothing dirty of sleazy it just means a few changes in the way you approach things. For instance:

• Make love in a new and different place
• Make love in an old place you used too but have not done fro a while
• Add some food into your bedroom capers
• Break the routine with something exciting and different!

If you want to know more on how to spice up your sex life click here for guides, links and information that add passion back to the bedroom in any relationship!

Your anniversary is approaching fast and you start to wonder if your spouse will remember which date it occurs on this year. Just for a change he or she may have made a mental note of it or written it in a diary, but more than likely the old memory may need jogging, again. It is never a good idea to leave things to chance, especially if you want results. After all, it’s just one little day in the year, and a very special day at that, and a good reason to push the boat out and celebrate. So, you could start dropping some subtle hints a couple of weeks before the anniversary.

You could perhaps reminisce about the fabulous honeymoon you had or how old Auntie Annie did that amazing can-can on the top table at the wedding feast even before the speeches had begun. This is bound to get results, but if you want to ensure that lovely anniversary gifts are going to be heading your way, you may have to resort to leaving a wish list lying around, preferably in a place where it is going to get noticed. You never know, your partner may excel at taking the hint and plump for the most extravagant anniversary gifts on your list. If you don’t ask, you usually don’t get.

If you are the smart one who remembers your anniversary without any help, you will be racking your brains for something original to give to your spouse as a token of your love and appreciation. If you are buying for your wife or girlfriend, it is guaranteed that she will appreciate being made a fuss of, and pampering anniversary gifts will show her just how much she means to you. A Pamper Me Bathroom Bundle is beautifully presented, and includes everything she will need for a wonderful soak and pampering session in the bath, before you head out together to your favourite restaurant for a romantic candlelit dinner for two. In this anniversary gifts pack are all the towels, face cloths and aromatherapy perfume creams, lotions, potions and soap that she will require, and every time she uses them she will remember what a fabulous and considerate partner you are.

We all know men are from Mars and women are from Venus, so a piece of Venus to call her very own has to be the ultimate in romantic anniversary gifts. She will be thrilled to know, and boast to all her friends, that there is an acre of Venus out there that is actually hers, and she’ll have all the documents to prove it. With this anniversary gift she will even have the mineral rights to her piece of land, so just imagine if she ever gets the chance to visit the planet. Who knows what precious rocks she may find…?

Maybe she would prefer something that she can admire every day, something that she can display on the shelf. A really original anniversary gift idea is a Message in a Bottle which comes in a treasure chest style presentation box. She will never guess what it holds. Inside the corked bottle will be a scroll with your own personal romantic message for her eyes only, lying on a bed of sand and shells, evoking visions of desert islands, palm trees and just the two of you stranded together with nothing but your love to keep you alive.

Perhaps she is the type of woman who enjoys a thrilling challenge, always on the lookout for a bit of excitement. No doubt she would marvel at the opportunity of driving a Ferrari at Silverstone. A chance to bomb around the circuit is the anniversary gift of a life time, even if your heart may be in your mouth as you watch her burn rubber. But this will certainly put an end to the comments about women drivers. Adrenalin laden anniversary gifts will make her adore you for the wonderful partner that you are when she sits in that Ferrari for the first time.

Buying an anniversary gift for your man is so much easier. He is going to be thrilled when you give him a personalised sports calendar, and you can chose from a selection of sports such as golf, football, fishing or cricket or whatever sport tickles his fancy. These lovely anniversary gifts have his name on every image each month. If he is an adrenalin fiend and always boasting about how brave and fearless he is, why not call his bluff and give him a flying lesson as his anniversary gift. He will get the chance to take over the controls up there in the sky and will impress you with his daring-do abilities. And if that isn’t enough to spice up your relationship you can always give him a copy of the Little Black Book of Kama Sutra as an anniversary gift. It will give you something to work on for the next few months!